Why looking for signs he doesn’t love you?
Let me guess.
Something’s going on in your relationship, and you are looking for 100% no-doubt signs he doesn’t love you anymore.
If it turns out that you are with a man who doesn’t care about you, your heart is about to be broken.
Despite that, it’s far better to be happy alone than miserable with someone who doesn’t want you in his life. If your guy ticks the boxes n 3 or more of the signs below – he doesn’t really love you.
News flash: There is a bonus sign he doesn’t love you anymore, and it’s the most important one.
So let’s dive in.
1. You feel anxious around him, and you don’t know why
Needless to say, if your boyfriend doesn’t love you anymore there’s a weird vibe he transmits onto you, and you feel it. He is probably more confused than you right now, and his anxiousness travels to you.
On top of that, if you are in denial and refuse to accept he no longer loves you, then you are in the middle of inner conflict with yourself.
All that slowly kills your sanity, and you get panicked and scared of what the future will bring.
2. Your boyfriend doesn’t put any effort into the relationship anymore
It’s been a one-sided relationship for a long time.
And you know what?
You feel tired, annoyed and powerless all at once.
He hasn’t initiated almost any of your last few (or even more) dates, and he doesn’t work on getting closer to you. There is no connection between you two anymore, and nothing could trigger him to invest his time in this relationship.
Most of all…
3. It looks like your boyfriend doesn’t care about you anymore
Here’s the deal.
When a man loves you deeply, he cares about the way you feel all the time.
Even when he has problems.
Even when he is out with friends.
Even when he has the right not to care.
When a man loves you, he is there for you. No. Matter. What.
But not your guy. He makes you feel left outside and alone. You need his support, but he’s nowhere to be found.
And this won’t surprise you: he doesn’t love you enough.
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4. He is distant emotionally
A man who is in love with you will look for ways to be close to you. And I don’t mean just the physical touch.
The essential connection that builds a strong and fulfilling relationship is emotional commitment and closeness.
This is the part where you will actually know for sure if he loves you or not.
Is he distant?
Does he prefer not to talk to you about things that bother him?
Do you feel he’s put a massive wall between you two and no matter how hard you hit it, you can’t find even a peephole so you could get to him?
Well, that’s a huge red flag that your guy isn’t comfortable being with you and he might not love you anymore.
5. He says he needs space
Agh, men and their need for space.
>>>>>News flash<<<<<: We all need space.
But there’s a healthy space between two people, and there’s space that indicates problems.
How to know if the space he needs is in the first category?
That depends on how long you’ve been together.
In the first few weeks or months, many couples prefer to spend all of their free time together. Once the honeymoon phase is over though, both of you need a little bit of space. You want to see other people and spend time with friends.
Can I be totally honest with you?
If that happens – it’s normal.
So what’s not normal then?
It’s not normal to push you away all the time. It’s not normal to see each other only once in the week (if there isn’t a good reason for it). Ignoring your calls because “he needs time alone”, not answering your messages for hours (all the time) isn’t normal. Pushing you away regularly, calling you clingy and making you feel bad that you want to be with him – that’s not normal. It’s a sign he doesn’t care about your relationship.
But that’s not all…
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6. Your partner doesn’t want you to bother him
Add this sign to the previous one.
Can you believe that I had an email from a lady who was saying that her boyfriend didn’t want to see her more than once a week?
She was depressed because she believed she loved him, but couldn’t understand why he wouldn’t want to spend more time together?
Are you in a similar situation?
Well, let me tell you that’s not OK. Your boyfriend doesn’t appreciate you; he doesn’t respect you and most of all – he doesn’t care about you.
He is using you.
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7. Communication issues
Seriously, how many dating and relationship coaches have spent thousands of hours explaining to all of us – communication is everything in a relationship.
Moreover, I’ve seen its importance in my relationships too.
How to know if you have communication issues?
Ask yourself these 4 questions:
- Do I feel 100% comfortable speaking to him about my problems?
- Does he actively listen to what I say?
- Am I aware of what’s going on in his personal life?
- Compared to the beginning of our relationship – do our conversations get deeper and more meaningful?
The answers will tell you if you have communication problems. And if you do – there are many ways to fix them, at the end of this post I will show you one way to do it.
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8. He never compromises
Most of all, he doesn’t feel like he has to compromise with anything in his life.
That leaves you, the real worker in your relationship, to juggle with your life, move appointments, change plans and shape yourself according to whatever your guy needs and wants.
Why should you be the one that always “needs to change”, “must accept him as he is” and “don’t bother him with anything”?
Here’s the thing: I don’t like compromises either. Neither you do. Actually, no one does.
But they are one of the 10 most important relationship habits you must have to build a strong relationship. Not willing to compromise is not ready to put effort into your relationship. The conclusion is only one: he doesn’t care about you as much as you’d like him to.