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9 Good Habits to Increase Your Sex Drive – Boost Your Libido

How to increase your sex drive by implementing new habits?

You love your partner but you feel you need to increase your sex drive as the way you feel lately is not sexy at all. Am I right? 

Well, don’t blame yourself for it – your libido doesn’t work on voice command. Just because you lack desire for sex it doesn’t mean something’s wrong with you. 

Your libido depends on many things like stress, hormones, lifestyle, confidence, health habits, and simply ignoring yourself and your needs. But more about that later.

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Whatever the reason, you know better than anyone how your normal sex drive feels like. 

So, if something doesn’t match lately, there’s a reason behind it, and you will want to find it.

When looking for ways to increase your sex drive, focus first on your habits. We know, life is a chain of everyday actions, which depend on our habits. The way we feel is often just a habit.

Implementing good habits will increase your sex drive no matter how low it is. There is no exception. 

Let’s build some nice habits to boost your libido!

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It’s all in the head

We, women, know… I think we said it many times and even men know it by now – it’s all in the head. You can be with the love of your life; everything is so perfect that you wonder if you’re awake or you’re dreaming. But when it comes to sex, you’re just not there. Your thoughts are going from one topic to another, and you don’t feel in a mood for something like that. Sounds familiar? Here’s what you can do about it:

Meditation

Th best thing about meditation is not that it sounds trendy and exotic at the same time. The best thing is that it teaches you how to be present. Because, when you are in bed with your partner and really want to focus on the task, your mind can listen to you or you will hear every little stupidity it tells you. 

Well, meditation will do the dirty job for you. Focusing on the present moment has never been so hard as it is these days. At the same time, we’ve never been so blessed with knowledge as we are nowadays. That is what meditation will help you with. The present is the only place and time that exists, and meditation will help your mind stay in bed, with you while trying to enjoy yourselves.

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The first habit – meditate!

Stress

I will not take too much time to preach about stress. Everyone knows that stress kills the sex drive, along with every other good emotion in our body and mind. Find ways to distract yourself with something positive at least an hour before going to bed. Read a book, write in a diary, laugh with your SO, do something good for someone.

The second habit – Stop Stressing

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Talking about books…

increase-your-sex-drive-boost-libido-2One of the best ways to increase your sex drive right away is to read more books. But not just any book. Choose chick lit, an erotic novella, something spicy, hot and a little bit ridiculous. Whatever your opinion of this genre, you’ll find something to keep you focused. 

The passion, the absurd of the characters’ emotions, the sweaty hot and pink language will give you some inspiration, trust me! 

The Third habit – Read chick lit

Have a little chat 

I know that both of you work, and if you have kids, it’s even busier.

However, sex and making love is an intimacy that starts long before you go into the bed.

Keeping the fire burning between the two of you is essential for fulfilling intimacy. Share your feelings, go back in your memories to some nice plays, open the photos on your phone, go through the crazy videos you have together. 

One day, my partner was feeling a bit down. There was no reason – just a cold, rainy day when nothing looks right or bright. After we finished our telephone conversation, I went through my phone and found a video from one of our holidays on the seaside. The video was showing few minutes of a sunrise – it was a colourful combination of red sun, warm morning wind, the salty sound of the waves, our sleepy faces… it was the first time we welcomed the sunrise on the beach together, and it was one of my dreams coming true. So, I sent him the video. I knew I warmed his heart and took his mind to a better place, showing that there’s tomorrow as well. We had our warm mornings in the past, and we will have them in the future too.  

Show love, talk, share emotions and care. Your sex drive automatically will increase its levels.

The Forth habit – talk, share and care more

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Visit the park or the gym…

Exercising is one of the best ways to increase your sex drive. When jogging, lifting weights, walking or do any other physical activity, your body “wakes up” for action. Your adrenaline levels go high, and your blood starts “boiling”. All that will prepare you for the next exercise – testing your libido.

The Fifth habit – Exercise more

Sexercise

Your intimate muscles are still muscles; you know that. Moreover, an orgasm is an actual contraction of your muscles in the intimate area of your body. Therefore, these muscles will be more trained to contract at the right time, if you train them well. Kegel’s exercises are the best way to do it. There’re even weights specially designed for that if you need help to start. 

Have more sex

Sex is like the food, they say – the more you do it, the more you want to do it. I guess we can agree that having orgasms could be a bit addictive, can’t we? It’s all about the pleasure, the intimacy, the feel of wholeness.

But it is true that having sex is a habit as well, just like getting hungry every day in the same hours. Therefore, increasing the amount of sex we have on a weekly basis could actually increase your sex drive. Boost the sex – boost the sex drive.

The sixth habit – Have more sex

Use your imagination

Very often, the reason to miss out on sex drive is: there’s nothing new about it that will happen. As I said at the beginning – it’s all in the head. Plan a Naughty Thursday every week and do something different, experiment with your bodies. Plan a dirty weekend away, explore your limits, get inspirations from erotic movies.  Push your imagination to work in that direction, give it a focus, and it will bloom.

The Seventh habit – Be creative

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You are what you eat

Like, literally! Whatever you put on your plate will become your blood, skin, bones, muscles… well, you! 

That is why is so important to be aware what you eat. Junk food will not give you the energy to desire more sex at 10 pm tonight. A healthy diet though will increase your sex drive and your energy. Remember stress and tiredness? You can get rid of them, simply by changing your diet. Moreover, if you already eat healthily, include more of those foods in your meals. They are on the top of the “boost your libido” food scale.

The Eight habit – Eat healthily

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Medical issues

Sometimes, the reason you just can’t make yourself feel in a sexy mood is medical. Health reflects on absolutely every single aspect of your physical and emotional life. 

Anaemia

During your period, you lose iron. That is the reason many women feel tired all the time, they’re pale, experience lack of energy and can’t wait to sleep for at least 10 hours.

You can easily check that by doing a simple blood test. Meanwhile, you can add more food rich ironing your blood, as well as getting food supplements to help you fight anaemia. Iron-rich foods are spinach, fish, eggs, beans, nuts, dried fruits, watercress, curly kale.

Your Pill

The primary job of you Pill is to decrease the levels of testosterone, hence – no chance to conceive. However, the testosterone is the main hormone that causes high sex drive… or any sex drive.  By decreasing the levels of restored, you automatically put pressure on your libido. 

Consider consultation with your doctor regarding change of the Pill or change the contraception method to see if your libido will be affected by it.

Hormones

It is not only the testosterone that affects your desire for sex. Any hormonal misbalance will change it. For example, the progesterone. Low levels of it can cause mood swings, fertility problems, weight gain, lack or low sex drive, crazy PMS and more. If you feel like you live a normal, healthy life, you’re not in a stressful period of your life, but you just feel unhappy and unable to enjoy sex, consider hormonal disbalance check. It might be the reason you’re losing so much joy in life.

The Ninth habit – Consult with the GP

I hope you liked my healthy habits to increase your sex drive, but more importantly – they helped you find the right direction to better love life. If that happened, please subscribe to our blog so that you can enjoy the useful content. Stay happy!

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7 Romantic Ideas For Him In The Bed – Surprise Your Man

7 Bedroom surprises and romantic ideas for him in the bed to drive him crazy about you.

These romantic ideas for him on the bed are a perfect part two of my other post 7 Sex Surprises For Him which is still one of the most popular posts on the website. I guess every woman needs a bit of inspiration once in a while so you can boost up the sex life between the two of you.

Each one of the bedroom surprises for your man is simple to follow but bring this extra spice on the boring Friday evenings. If you liked this post, subscribe to our blog so you can be notified when a new awesome idea is out.

Once you’ve done all the subscription part, let’s jump to the useful bedroom ideas to WOW him tonight.

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1. Striptease

Well, that’s not a secret – men love a good lap dance. The idea of their woman dancing slowly around them, getting off her clothes off layer by layer is a dream. Every woman should try it at least once. Do you feel uncomfortable? Remember that your guy will be so amazed by your idea, confidence and the fact you decided to reward him in that way, that the last thing he’ll think about is how you move. If you need some extra push – here’s a video of Carmen Electra’s detailed course to simple but very sexy lap dance routines you can choose. I can tell from experience – they work!

2. Send him Small Hints Every Few Hours

romantic-ideas-for-him-in-the-bed-sex-surpriseOne of the best romantic ideas for him in the bed starts long before you get to the bed. Prepare your man from the morning with some small hints of what’s to expect when he gets home. If you go through the 14 Days/Mornings to a perfect relationship, you will see on Day 11 how to start with a sexy photo in the morning. But don’t stop there. During the day send him few texts what you want to do to him or what you want him to do to you. I don’t think he’ll be able to work too much the day, but hey, he’ll catch up with you in the evening.

3. Be The Boss

Men are strong, they like to be leaders and the alpha of the family. But when it comes to the bed – that’s the perfect place for them to surrender. They love it when you take the things in your hands. You can tie him and do whatever you want with him. You can give him exact instructions on how to touch you, kiss you and how to make love to you. Whatever you choose – he’ll be thrilled by this bedroom surprise.

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4. Sunday morning – sexy morning

Create a tradition on the Sundays to walk in your home only with a big T-shirt and no panties. A big T-shirt will hide your intimate parts, but every move you make will give him a small glimpse of what’s there…and this will drive him crazy. That’s one of the best ways to surprise your man because it shows him you’re not so innocent even if you like you are.

5. Garter belt under your work clothes

My personal favourite form all of the romantic ideas for him in the bed… and starts out of bed, again. Secretly order one of these mind-blowing garter belts and wear it under your work clothes. When you come home in the evening, and your man hugs you and start placing his hands all over you, he’ll notice something’s extra there. Imagine his face when he discovers what it is – priceless.

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6. Allow him to own you

There are many ways to surprise your man but to allow him to do whatever he wants, with no boundaries, is the best romantic idea for the bed. Men love to play with toys, no matter the toy – they love to experiment, try how it works, to push here and there to see the reactions.. be that toy. Allow him to do whatever he dreams to do with you and this will be a gift he’ll remember forever. 

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7. Wait for him

One of the cutest romantic ideas for him in the bed happens exactly in the bed. It’s just a normal evening, nothing unusual. You’ve been to work; he’s been to work too. You yawn for a few times, kiss him good night and go to sleep. He comes after a while, assured you’re sleeping and he doesn’t expect anything to happen. He comes in the bed, hugs you and BOOM! You’re naked! You are not only awake but are waiting for him ready for the action. Now will be the time for a proper “Good night!”. Thank me later!

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So that is my latest portion of romantic ideas for him in the bed. Hope you choose one or more of them and enjoy these bedroom surprises for your man … with him! Hey, I bet you’ll have more fun waiting for each one of them to happen. Stay sexy, stay in love!

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Romantic Weekend Ideas – The Perfect Dirty Weekend Away Guide

Step by step to a mind-blowing dirty weekend away

When it comes to romantic weekend ideas, all we can think about is a dirty weekend away. By saying “dirty weekend away” though, I don’t mean two days of sex marathon that ends up with you and your partner hating your intimate parts… just because it was all about sex, sex and more sex.

The perfect weekend away with your partner is about you two enjoying each other’s company, have lot’s of sex (that’s the point, right?) but combine the erotic part with fun and relax. 

So, I’ve prepared a detailed guide for a perfect, enjoyable, intimate dirty weekend away.

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It all starts with the destination

If in your mind “dirty weekend away destination” includes a suspicious hotel at the end of the motorway – forget about it. Pick a place that offers spa treatments, pool and sauna. We’ll talk about it later when we get to the action steps.

Choose an area with a park nearby, but not too many places to visit – the point of the dirty weekend is to spend it doing naughty things, not sightseeing.

The room

romantic-weekend-away-dirty-ideasAsk for a room with a bathtub in the bathroom when you make the reservation. If you want to go crazy, if you have an anniversary, or want to feel special, ask for the bridal sweet, it usually comes with a bath in the room or the bathroom. Order a bottle of wine or champagne with two glasses to wait for you on arrival. 

The spa

One of the best romantic ideas is to book massages for both of you on Saturday noon time. Ask what the visiting time for the pool area and the other spa facilities is.

Dinner time

This is all up to you. You could book a table for dinner in the restaurant. Alternatively, you could just enjoy the food in your room. There’s are many ways to do that; we’ll get to them later.

Romantic weekend ideas action steps for a dirty weekend away.

Friday afternoon – check-in

Check-in in the hotel, get familiar with the facilities, take half an hour to explore them. You can find more things to include in your naughty weekend plans. Keep the evening simple – you’ve been at work all day, you’ve probably driven to the place at least an hour, you’re tired. Take your time to unwind, relax, get into that weekend mood. 

Have dinner in the restaurant, or somewhere nearby, in the area. Go to bed early enough, so you can be fresh and ready for the Saturday. If you want to start with the intimate part – do as you like. However, don’t feel pressured to just start with it because it’s a sex-weekend. 

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Saturday

Wake up early enough to have time to start the day in a mind-blowing way. 

Now, when I said to choose a room with a bathtub, you probably thought about candles and evening glasses of champagne with aroma bubbles. Nope!

Although, keep the bubbles! Start your Saturday with a beautiful bath experience. Hop in the bathtub together right after you wake up. Give each other a nice back rub (yeah, you know what I mean) and make love. Your bodies are so relaxed after the good night sleep that this morning sex will be one of the best experiences from this weekend.

Enjoy breakfast after that. You could go to the restaurant, or you could order it in the room. Can you imagine yourself laying in the bed, having a warm croissant with a selection of fresh fruits and cappuccino? What an amazing morning. 

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A dirty weekend away after breakfast

Ok, so the morning is gone. You officially started the sex marathon.

So, why not have a short walk after breakfast in the park nearby? Make it no longer than an hour – hey, you’ve got sex to do! Don’t distract yourself too much.  

Go back to the room and enjoy each other one more time before proceeding with the spa-bookings. Now is the time to have the massages, jump into the pool and sweat in the sauna. Spear a good two hours for these activities. 

By the end of these two hours, you’ll be relaxed, with a red face and huge smile.

You might feel a bit lazy but tease each other’s bodies for a while. Don’t get to the intercourse at least for half hour. The foreplay will get you creative. Bring toys with you, ask each other how you like it. It’s a good time to choose one of these sex games for couples and slowly build up the foreplay to exploding sex with intense orgasms. 

Don’t forget to eat – you need your strength for the rest of the day. Believe me, that’s just the start of it.

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Roleplay, sex fantasies, dirty mind

Well, as we call it a dirty weekend away, let’s make it as dirty as possible.

Pick a role play game – bring some naughty costumes, dress up, go into the characters and play the game to the very end.

Share some sex fantasies and make them come true. Spend the afternoon in exploring each other’s limits, minds and bodies. 

Everyone has a different sex drive, so if at some point you reach your limitations for the day, don’t get angry on yourself. The romantic weekends away are about you about connecting with your partner, spending time together and enjoying every bit of it. It’s not only about sex and penetration. 

Tease every other part of the other’s body but the genitals. Cuddle, kiss and talk a lot. Watch a movie, take a nap or drink a coffee. Relax and refresh yourself with another bath or just take a shower.

End the day in a proper way

You’ve got few romantic weekend ideas here as well. 

Option one

If you’re in a playful mood, make it a “blind date”. Pretend you don’t know each other. One of you goes to the bar and orders a drink. The other comes and starts flirting. Play it cool and use your imagination. Really get into the role that you don’t know the other. Then one of you offers the key for the room to the other and leaves. I bet you know what to do next. It’s wild, it’s passionate, and it’s fun. 

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Option two. 

Order the dinner in the room. Pick a nice white wine or champagne, fruits and more chocolate or honey. I know, your parents never allowed you to play with the food, but tonight is an exception. Eat the chocolate and fruits from each other’s bodies. Order only one dessert and offer it as a prize to one of you that brings the other to orgasm first. 

Option three.

Choose a game to play. It’s not even necessary to be a sex game. Order pizza and beer. Watch a movie or favourite TV show. Laugh. Have sex. The charm in this simple evening is in the relaxation and being yourself. Of course, you can always spice it up with hot sex under the shower with the rule to be as quiet as possible. Whoever loses owns the other one more orgasm. You’re very welcome for the idea.

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Sunday – last hours of the dirty sex away and more romantic weekend ideas

I’m sure you liked the Saturday’s romantic weekend ideas, but we’re far from finishing the weekend. 

Sunday morning sleep as much as you want. Make an arrangement from the previous night – whoever wakes up first has to go down on the other. I already told you how amazing the morning sex is. The best part here is that your bodies still remember the Saturday’s naughty hours. 

Enjoy breakfast in the room or the restaurant. If you have time to go one more time to the spa – do it. Take the maximum from the morning. 

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On the way home talk about sex. Choose a place in your home you’ve never had sex before. Tease each other talking about what you’d do to the other. The moment you enter the house, just leave everything as it is and do exactly what you talked about. Is it going to be the kitchen plot? The hallway? Next to the window, so there’s always a chance someone to see you? Bring out the best of you and finish the dirty weekend away in a proper way.

I hope you enjoy my detailed Guide to a perfect dirty weekend away. Expect soon more romantic weekend ideas to come. Subscribe to our blog to be notified when this happens. Stay naughty!  

TOP 8 BEST GAMES FOR COUPLES ON AMAZON

Have you ever played sex games with your partner?

 

You’ve probably thought about playing naughty, but which are the best games for couples?You wouldn’t want to choose something that’s not going to give you the experience you aim for.

Why would you look for games for couples?

sex-best_games_for_couples-intimateWay too often the couples tend to get into a daily routine that doesn’t always suit the relationship. That means you have time and power for everything else in your life – work, traffic, shopping, cooking, watching TV, children, in-laws… The list would be too long, and probably you’ll still have something to add to it.

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So when we get to the bed we have two options:

  • We go to sleep almost immediately, totally exhausted by the day behind us, and ignore the little voice in our heads, that there’s something we could do to help the situation.
  • We decide to listen to that little voice and go for sex with our partner, but mostly because the last time we did it was embarrassingly long time ago, or we just want to try to reconnect with our partner more physically.

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As you may assume by now, both scenes tell you how wrong that is, so if you feel like I am describing you, I have good news.

Sex games for couples are your way out of the situation you don’t know how to go out of. The biggest benefits that those games give you as follows:

  • Something new, something exciting – we all love new things, no matter how big or small the package is, we always unwrap it with the excitement of a child. Can you imagine your feelings while unwrapping a package with a game you will play in the bed?
  • Something new, something exciting – did I already say that? Well, here’s a new meaning to it. The intimate play in your bed is most likely something you already know how it goes from the very beginning. And there’s nothing wrong in that, just sometimes the predictable things are not very exciting, are they?
  • Ideas you’d never think of – amazingly good thing about the games made for couples, is that someone else put the effort to find a way you and your partner to enjoy each other’s bodies in the most pleasurable way. How weirdly wonderful that is!
  • Excuses to try something new – if your partner is a bit shy and doesn’t share fantasies very often, but is willing to give a try to everything you suggest – that’s the biggest reason to order a game and give it a night or two.

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  • Spice up the love life – a new game will give you more ideas what to do tonight in the bed even you already tried everything that came into your mind since you’re together. I bet there’re at least ten things you’ve never tried from each game.
  • Reconnect with your loved one – going back to the everyday life sometimes is a challenge to stay connected with your partner, even if your love is stronger than ever. A new game to implement in your intimate life is just one of the many other ways to reconnect again. But I can guarantee you it will be the most memorable one!

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These 8 of the best games for couples are your way to the long forgotten victory

Sex is fun! A pleasure we all enjoy.

Well, some people enjoy it more than others.

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And that’s why I decided to give you the top 10 of the best games for couples you can find on Amazon.

So here they are! Have a look at them (by clicking on the photos), and choose the perfect one for the two of you.

 

This naughty pack of games is an actual library full of 400 cards, dice, audible timer and instruction sheet. Can you imagine that there are 400 different ways to enjoy the activity we merely named sex?Roleplaying intimate talks, colour coding… that’s just a small part of what you’ll find in that box. Enjoy it!

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Foreplay cards with ideas how to spice the things up before the actual sex. Be open-minded and non-judgmental about trying these new things. Explore yourself and your partner with the aim to find new ways and levels of pleasure. In that game, both of you collect cards, and the winner gets the right to implement his cards when giving and receiving pleasure.

 

As Cosmo says: “naughty spin on the classic Truth or Dear”. Unisex questions you can play out and decide – “Truth” you can’t tell or “Dear” you’re overexcited about. It’s fun and different way to start foreplay with your partner. Give it a go!

 

What a fantastic idea for the next month or just the next 30 days. An intimate challenge/idea for every day of the month. These sexual activities are perfect for you if you want to boost your sex life as fast as possible. Now that is what I call best games for couples… can you handle them?

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The sex in the bedroom is boring… according to these Author – Ava Cadell. Instead, she gives you lots of ideas where the sex wouldn’t be boring at all. On top of that once you try some suggestions you’ll never look at the kitchen or the food (or the bathroom, or the… everywhere!), the same way; and the way you talk to each other will ultimately change… for something more… naughty! Just check the reviews.

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Have a new look at the oral sex, implement new techniques, and give each other an experience out of this world. Thi little game for couples has five new ways to give oral pleasure for each of the partners. Tell me if you liked it 😉

 

I love this book’s message. Sex should be messy, dirty, loud and shameless. It should be a mix or roleplays, fantasies, sex toys, dirty talk and everything around. The Author – Amber Cole, is certified sex coach, so she knows what she’s talking about. In this small book, you will find everything you need for the greatest sex with your partner… tonight!

One more time – Cosmo is going naughty and offer us a Little BIG BOOK of sex games for couples. And there’s a bonus – 7 days position challenge. My challenge to you? Try to finish it before these seven days expire.

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So, do you think those are the best games for couples? Have you tried some of them or maybe you and your partner create your own games? Share with us.

HOW OFTEN DO YOU HAVE SEX

Does your family’s happiness depend on how often you have sex?

 

How often do you have sex? Does your happiness depend on the frequency you and your partner satisfy each other in the bed? Does your salary define your sex life? Let me try to answer these and some more questions.

 

It is common to connect our happiness with how often we have sex with our partner. However “often” for some people may be three times a week, while for someone else it could be every other day.

 

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So could we tell that as often we have sex as happier we will feel?

 

There are many studies regarding sexual behaviour and its effects on the personality. One of them – done from Society for Personality and Social Psychology, was made with the help of more than 30 000 Americans and lasted for 40 years. It tells us that:

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The couples that reported they’re in the happiest time of their life have sex once a week!how_often_sex-intimate-couple-bed

 

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Clearly, jumping into the bed once a week with the intention to enjoy your spouse will not solve your other problems. But it will reduce the stress levels. Moreover, the intimate connection will remind you the love you share. At the same time experiencing an orgasm will release endorphins and boost your happiness level.

 

Our sex drive and how everything around us defines it

 

Our sex drive varies during the years and at the same time changes if we’re stressed, ill or just tired. And while the stress and the tiredness may not have anything to do with our partner, the intimate relationship is the first to feel the effects.

 

However, you cannot force intimacy when you don’t feel the need of sexual experience. But what if you actually want to have sex more often, but you’re constantly bombarded with other things such as work, stress, children, in-laws and the age?

 

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Well, schedule it!

 

Could we schedule our sexual activities and plan how often to have sex?

 

As weird as it sounds, scheduling the sex with your partner could help you in developing a routine regarding your intimate life.

 

Putting “Sex” on your To-Do list will make magic to you. Especially if you like to follow the small points in your journal.

 

It will give you the security that Yes, you have time for it. Moreover, when you know, there’s another episode of your favourite series, scheduling sex right after it will give it an extra hint when you see the end of the show.

 

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So I have to have sex once a week, and that will make me happy?!

 

The studies say that the couples that reported they feel happy together usually have sex once a how_often_do_you_have_sex-intimacyweek. That’s an average number. At the time they don’t claim that the fact they make love once a week with their partner is the reason to be happy.

 

So no, if you skip a week or two this month and feel naughty 12 times next month, it won’t boost or ruin your happiness.

 

So what are you trying to say with all these random facts?

 

How often you have sex will not solve your relationship problems nor boost your personal happiness.

 

You shouldn’t wonder if having sex three times per month means your relationship dies.

 

The frequency of the intimate fun activities you and your partner have is more than perfect as long as you’re both satisfies with it.

 

No research could or will tell you – yes, personally you, what is normal or should you do or not do something about your sex life.

 

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If you feel doubts about your significant one’s satisfaction choose an appropriate time and have a conversation about it. The same technique applies if your sex life doesn’t match your needs.

 

In conclusion, don’t be depressed by statistics as they show what’s average. Everything around “average” is what makes average exist.

 

So, “How often do you have sex?” should change to:

 

Does how often you have sex makes you happy?

HOW TO TALK DIRTY TO YOUR MAN AND WOW HIM

Dirty talk do’s and don’ts

 

If you know how to talk dirty to your man… he is a happy man. Talking dirty is popular nowadays. Yet, it is not going to be your Friday-night-out-with-the-girls topic. That’s why I want to give you the dirty talk tips you crave to follow so you can WOW your guy.

Dirty talk and the relationship

Even if naughty talks are not part of your usual sex routine, you may want to consider adding it. And here’s why:

  • If you’re still at the beginning of the relationship learning how to talk dirty to your man will help him discover exactly what you like and how you like it.
  • I can guarantee that 99.999999% of the men are going crazy over women talking dirty next to their ears. They just can’t help it.
  • Dirty talk is like an acting – you can go into the naughty role and use it as a bridge to open your intimate self and help him get to know you better.
  • It’s always a nice spice to add to your sex life even if you’re together since the beginning of the time.
  • It’s fun that leads to even more fun.

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Establish what you like and accept, and what you don’t

Just like every other game in this world, learning how to talk dirty to your man has to have rules. Establish these rules before you even open your mouth.

First for yourself. Start with finding out what you like to hear and what you don’t like to hear. Make a list in your mind of all the dirty phrases or words you really don’t enjoy hearing. That is important not to ruin the fun in the hottest moment in bed.

If some words or actions make you uncomfortable, “trashy”, “cheap” or just don’t feel right, don’t think even for a second to try them.

Talk to him. After you make the do’s and don’ts clear to yourself, it’s time to talk to your man. It’s always a good idea to ask if the other would enjoy something new in bed before it actually happens. Share your new ideas, and ask him to give his opinion on it. Be honest, so you don’t get surprised at the middle of the action.

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Dirty talk ideas. “How to talk dirty to your man” Pro Version

Tell me how many of these ideas you can fit in the next one month.

Share when you feel you want him. No matter if it’s in the morning, in the middle of the night (that’s one of their fantasies by the way), or during your lunch break. If you are thinking about your man, let him know.

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Sext him. We live in a technology world so use it in your favour. Send him a dirty text message even if he’s in the other room. He will come with the biggest smile you’ve ever seen on his face.

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Ask him if he can guess the colour of your underwear. You know that will work, right? Just do it in a moment he cannot check it immediately. I can bet wherever you are – he won’t be able to have even one normal conversation till you leave the place.

Share your plans with him like it’s a weather talk. Illustrate exactly what you want to do to him. Be honest, be clear, be descriptive. After that – follow your own plan.

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Say how you feel while you’re having sex. Share your feelings while you’re in the middle of the action. Explain how sensitive/wet/turned on you feel. Use short sentences – 2-3 words every few minutes.

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Remind him how amazing it was last time you did it. Even better – if you want a second round few minutes after the first one,  just tell him it’s been a long time since you had sex, and you need him really bad. Then watch his face while he realises what you just said.

Ask him to check if you’re ready for him and then grab his hand and put it in your pants.

Reverse the same thing. Start rubbing his man’s parts, and while doing that, explain you want to check if he’s ready for you. Of course, he will be… only in a few seconds time.

Leave a dirty talk note in his wallet. You may write on it that the at the moment he reads that note, you’re getting wet while thinking of him.

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Remember that time when… feel the gap with one of your favourite sex experience together, and describe it as detailed as possible. You get extra points if you whisper it close to his ear while touching yourself.

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How to talk dirty to your man if you’re a shy girl

Not everyone can do it as easy as it sounds, right? And that’s totally fine. So if you are shy even to encourage him what to do in the bed while making love, this is for you. By the way – the encouraging part – girl, that’s a dirty talk too. You see, you’re halfway there already, and you didn’t know it.

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Here are some tips for you, my shy flower.

Start with something innocent. Nobody asks you to go pro in it from the beginning. Push your limits but make sure you feel comfortable with what comes out of your mouth. Your dirty phrases at the beginning may be something almost “clean”.

  • “I can’t wait to touch you tonight.” – his imagination will limit the touching zones very fast.dirty_talk_ideas-intimate-sex_ideas
  • “I am waiting for you, babe.” – believe me; he knows exactly what you are waiting for.
  • “Can you guess what we would be doing right now if we were alone/together?” – in case you like texting more than talking, that’s a sexy example.
  • “Tell me what you want me to do to you.” – in this way the ball is actually in his hands but still – you started it, and he knows it.
  • Everything from the tips above, you think you will feel comfortable with.

The most important thing to learn how to talk dirty to your man is to follow what feels right for you. Remember – your man likes you to have fun, to feel sexy and to be comfortable with the situation. All that makes him proud of himself and encourages him to sharpen his skills. Can you guess who would benefit the most of it?

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