How do you spoil your man to the point he gets obsessed with you?
Let me guess.
You are looking for sweet ways to surprise your boyfriend (or husband) because you just know he deserves it.
You are in the middle of an in-love bubble you don’t want to go out of. You want to keep the warmth and closeness between the two of you for as long as possible.
But how do you do that?
You shower him with love specially selected for him. By you.
They say a woman cannot resist constant attention, but trust me – men make no difference.
Who doesn’t like to be loved?
So stick with me here.
I have 7 free and sweet ways to surprise your boyfriend, melt his manly tough heart and make him obsessed with you.
And they won’t cost you a dime.
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1. Romantic Challenge for Couples
Are you ready for a couples challenge?
Here’s a clue.
Can you love him unconditionally for 14 days in a row?
Truth to be told.
This romantic challenge has proved to be one of the best couples’ challenges ever.
Instead of running here and there doing stuff, you dedicate the next 14 mornings to your relationship with small 5 minutes rituals especially designed to boost your romance.
Despite the fact they take only 5 minutes away from your morning rush, these small rituals will smoothly bring you two closer to each other.
So smooth, you won’t even realise it.
They are all:
- no need for preparation (with small exceptions)
- they are gorgeously romantic and sweet (I guarantee your man will be pleasantly surprised)
- they work like magic and will bond you even stronger
2. 50 Romantic Messages For Your Partner to Surprise Him Every Day
This is the part where most women back off.
They think that it’s their man’s job to send them a mile-long message and melt their hearts.
You are from the type of women who don’t believe in man’s job/woman’s job.
You aren’t afraid to tell your guy you love him and you appreciate him.
You know that by doing that he will return the gesture. In his own sweet way.
Therefore, you decide to go with these 50 love messages that will sweep him off his feet.
How many days in a row can you send him one message a day?
Considering the amount of time we spend on our phones every single day, its a matter of you taking the decision to do it. And having a reminder for the first week to give you the extra push (but he doesn’t have to know about this).
I promise you.
After the first few days, he will be looking forward to your messages every single day.
If you’ve ever heard of The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman, you might know that men’s most common love language is appreciation.
In fact, let me tell you a personal story to show you how vital appreciation is to men.
The inspiration for the post came from my man.
All I did was listing all the ways he captured my heart and adding nothing to it. My partner read the post and admitted he was extremely emotional after it.
A few days later it was the International Women’s Day (8th of March). I woke up in the middle of the night to use the restroom and on the way out my heart was going to explode. I saw something purple running towards me (here’s the time to mention I wear glasses and I was without them at this point, so my vision was limited). It took me a second to realise that this was my handsome man holding a purple orchid. He got up to give it to me in the middle of the night because he knew we wouldn’t be able to see each other in the morning before he goes to work. I don’t know about you, but when I saw my loved one getting up from the bed at 2 a.m. to give me a flower, my heart melted.
I know that part of his decision to do it was the fact he knew I would appreciate it.
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This is what appreciation does to men. They melt and do stuff you don’t expect them to do.
They want to be noticed just as much as we – women, like to be noticed.
Can you imagine what a month or 50 days of daily appreciation could do for your relationship?
3. 18 Love Coupons for Him to Spice Up Your Love Life
No matter how many messages you plan to send him in the next 100 days…
He is a man and men are famous for their explicit excitement when it comes to… bed-time activities.
Think I’m exaggerating?
Don’t worry, they are free.
And you don’t have to enter emails to get them (instant download).
They are catchy and give your man the right to choose what type of love he needs today.
Who wouldn’t like that?
A few of them have the option to be modified by him.
Want something for yourself too?
They start with a beautiful quote as an introduction to the love coupons. My man loved them. I know yours will do as well.
Wanna know more about them?
Here are some of the things included in the love coupons:
- Breakfast in Bed
- “You Could Leave Your Hat On” Striptease Time
- A Back Massage
- Reuse One of The Coupons
4. Create a Video Card for Him
Do you love looking at your own photos all over again and again?
I bet you do.
Assume your man is just another human being.
He will be way over surprised if you choose to make a video card for him with no reason. Yes, it melts hearts.
If you have an iPhone, it’s even easier as they have the option to create short or longer movie out of your photos and videos. I’ve done it many times. If you don’t, I am sure there are countless apps out there to help you during the process.
Send him the video card when he is at work or in the middle of a very hectic day. It will give him a break and focus his thoughts on more positive things in life. He will love you for that.
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5. “Things I Love About You” Video
Take it a step further.
Another great idea that allows you to use your camera to surprise your partner is to create a short movie of 10, 20 or even more things you love about him.
Film yourself for a week on different places that mean something for both of you. On each place film yourself for a few seconds while listing things you love about him. Combine the videos into one short movie and send it to your guy.
He will be stunned by your creativity and thoughtfulness.
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6. Create a Song List
Don’t even try to deny it.
Listening to a specific song reminds you of places, people and moments you thought you forgot.
Use this in your advantage.
This might sound a bit like a 90s-idea, but I can tell you, he will love it.
Here’s what to do.
For this sweet surprise, you will need to know his favourite songs ever.
Create a list with those songs on his iPod or Spotify and gift it to him. Men love these simple gestures; they mean you know him and know what he likes. This list of songs will remind him of you every time he listens to them. Soon after that, every song on the playlist will remind him of you. How cool is that?
7. Choose A Date and Surprise Him With It
Can you relate to that?
It’s another Friday evening and you both have no idea what to do. Not only tonight.
You have no idea what to do during the weekend.
It gets even worse.
You don’t even ask each other anymore if you should plan something.
I’ll save the day. (or the weekend)
One of the sweet ways to surprise your boyfriend could be planning a secret date and letting him know in the very last moment.
Is it going to be a dinner by the chimney or a romantic evening in your favourite restaurant? What about visiting a historical place nearby if you both love history?
You could stay at home and still have your date or go out and create new memories.
Need more ideas?
Yes, they are cheap, fun and you might actually find more than one way to surprise your loved one.
♥ Take a look at them here. If you’re busy and prefer to do it later, pin them now, so you could go back to them later on.
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