How do you spoil your man to the point he gets obsessed by you all over again?
How many sweet ways to surprise your boyfriend (or hubby) can you think of right now?
You know he deserves it, right?
He hugs and kisses you when you are grumpy.
He puts up with every single mood you go through daily and supports you.
He is truly trying to be the best he could be for you and doesn’t want to let you down for anything.
Therefore, he constantly tries to make you happy, every day.
He loves your smile and adores you.
And you want to return the favour, right?
You want to spoil him with something exciting and so romantic that even his brave heart to melt (secretly, he won’t admit it).
If you want to bring the sparkles back into your lives, I’ve got you covered here.
This is the perfect selection of 7 romantic surprises for him that will make him fall for you all over again.
And they won’t cost you a penny.
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1. Romantic Challenge for Couples
He doesn’t even have to know you go through it.
Actually, it’s even better if he doesn’t know it as you could surprise him for 14 days in a row.
Can you love him unconditionally for 14 days and show this love for him?
This romantic challenge has proved to be one of the best couples’ challenges ever. Instead of running here and there doing stuff, you dedicate the next 14 mornings to your relationship with small 5 minutes rituals especially designed to boost your relationship.
They are all:
- no need for preparation (with small exceptions)
- they are gorgeously romantic and sweet (I guarantee your man will be pleasantly surprised)
- they work like magic and will bond you even stronger
2. 50 Romantic Messages For Your Partner to Surprise Him Every Day
Initially, I was preparing this one for married couples. But seriously, a marriage certificate doesn’t affect how strong your love is and how close and bonded you two feel, right?
So, even if you are looking for a romantic surprise for your boyfriend, these 50 love messages will sweep him off his feet.
How many days in a row can you send him one message a day?
Considering the amount of time we spend on our phones every single day, its a matter of you taking the decision to do it and having a reminder for the first week to give you the extra push.
I promise you, after the first few days when your man will be suspicious by the change in you, he will be looking for your messages every single day.
If you’ve ever heard of The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman, you might have heard that the most common love language for men is appreciation.
In fact, let me tell you a personal story to show you how vital appreciation is to men.
The inspiration for the post came from my man. All I did was listing all the ways he captured my heart with and adding nothing to it. My partner read the post and admitted he was extremely emotional after it.
A few days later was The International Women’s Day (8th of March). I woke up in the middle of the night to use the restroom and on the way out my heart was going to explode. I saw something purple running towards me (here’s the time to mention I wear glasses and I was without them at this point, so my vision is limited). It took me a second to realise that this was my handsome man holding a purple orchid. He got up to give it to me in the middle of the night because he knew we wouldn’t be able to see each other in the morning before he goes to work. I don’t know about you, but when I saw my loved one getting up from the bed at 2 a.m. to give me a flower, my heart melted.
I know that part of his decision to do it was the fact he knew I would appreciate it.
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This is what appreciation does to men. They melt and do stuff you don’t expect them to do. They want to be noticed just as much as us, women like to be noticed.
Can you imagine what a month or 50 days of daily appreciation could do for your relationship? I can.
Click here to access the free 50 messages for your man and start surprising him today!
3. 18 Love Coupons for Him to Spice Up Your Love Life
Another sweet way to surprise your boyfriend or husband is to download and cut these adorable love coupons. Don’t worry, they are free, and you don’t have to enter emails to get them (instant download).
They are catchy and give your man the right to choose what type of love he needs today. A few of them have the option to be modified by him. Another few of the love coupons are challenging for you.
I love the way they start though. You have a beautiful quote to start with as an introduction to the love coupons. My man loved them. I know yours will do as well.
Here are some of the things included in the love coupons:
- Breakfast in Bed
- “You Could Leave Your Hat On” Striptease Time
- A Back Massage
- Reuse One of The Coupons
4. Create a Video Card for Him
Trust me; he will be way over surprised if you choose to make a video card for him with no reason. Yes, it melts hearts.
If you have an iPhone, it’s even easier as they have the option to create short or longer movie out of your photos and videos. I’ve done it many times. If you don’t, I am sure there are countless apps out there to help you during the process.
Send him the video card when he is at work or in the middle of a very hectic day. It will give him a break and focus his thoughts on positive things in life. He will love you for that even more.
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5. “Things I Love About You” Video
Another great idea that allows you to use your camera to surprise your partner is to create a short movie of 10, 20 or even more things you love about him.
Film yourself for a week on different places that mean something for both of you. On each place film yourself for a few seconds while listing things you love about him. Merge the videos into one short movie and send it to your guy. He will be stunned by your creativity and thoughtfulness.
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6. Create a Song List
This might sound a bit like a 90s-idea, but I can tell you, he will love it.
For this sweet surprise, you will need to know his favourite songs ever. Create a list with those songs on his iPod or Spotify and gift it to him. Men love these simple gestures; they mean you know him and know what he likes. This list of songs will remind him of you every time he listens to them. Soon after that, every song on the playlist will remind him of you. How cool is that?
7. Choose A Date and Surprise Him With It
Another way to spoil your man is to plan a romantic date and not tell him about it.
Is it going to be a dinner by the chimney or a romantic evening in your favourite restaurant? What about visiting a historical place nearby if you both love history?
You could stay at home and still have your date or go out and create new memories.
I’ve got 50 cheap and fun romantic date night ideas for you here to help you choose. Yes, they are cheap, fun and you might actually find more than one way to surprise your loved one.
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