Girls talk – advise how to attract a man you like
He looks amazing, he is smart and has a sense of humour. And you really like him. But you’re not sure if he knows that? We offer you just a few (or more) tips to help you find out how to attract a man you like.
The main thing before you even start doing anything to show him you’re interested in him is not to be desperate.
You haven’t been in a relationship for so long, he is your dream guy, you really see a future, and there should be nothing on your way being together, the stars and the moon… stop! Do you know what will stop you from attracting the guy you like?
Desperation pushes everybody away. Including the man you like.
Even if you don’t admit it, it’s kind of easy to see it from aside. To want everything no matter what is wrong, and when it comes to dating and love – even forbidden. It doesn’t matter if you think your time to be happy with someone has come. Let things flow.
Try to live with the belief that you’re exactly where you need to be in this world; then everything will go into place.
Now let’s go straight to the subject of how to attract the man you like.
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Confidence is an art…when you try to attract any man
But I talk about real confidence, girl…
…because not many people know the difference between believing in yourself and thinking you’re the best walking human been ever!
To value your individuality and to be happy with your inner self is more attractive than any lipstick on the earth.
And if you try to attract a man, confidence is your best friend in this situation.
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So yes, you are amazing and unique. That’s why you have to keep your head up and to appreciate the things you’ve achieved in your life. If he is the right man, he will esteem that part of you. So if you want to know how to attract the man you like – start with the confidence that you already like yourself enough and he? He is just a very yummy bonus to that.
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Although I mentioned something about the lipstick…
It is important to look good and feel good if you want to attract the man you like
Part of the first impression is the way you look. Do you know how loud message is that to the other person?
Honestly, if he doesn’t take care of his health and hygiene would you pay attention to him at all? Exactly! Works the other way around as well. I am not giving advises about makeup and dress styling – this is individual, and you already know what’s the best for you.
Especially when it comes to men – they count on the first impression. It sticks in their heads and comes out whenever they see you. Be sure you always smell good, wear something that makes you feel and look feminine and put some lipstick on those gorgeous lips.
But to look good includes being healthy as well.
An active way of life – Zumba, jogging, fitness or walks in the park, whatever makes your energy increase – do it. Be careful with the junk food and go to the hairdresser more often. These are only part of the things you have to do for yourself. That will help you to attract not just the person you like but everyone around you as well.
Having a healthy relationship starts with finding the right man and keeping him. However, very often the man you like is not the right one for you. Don’t leave anything to the time or fate to show you if he’s the right. Just find out how to attract someone that’s worth it and keep him.
How to attract the man you like? Be happy and positive.
Short story to teach you something:
Imagine yourself walking into a bank office. You have to ask for a loan, and you’re not really sure you’re going to get it. You see two women. The first one looks at you and smiles like she was waiting for you all day and the second one gives you a serious look, and you’re not sure if she’s happy to see you. Where would you go to ask for the loan? It’s obvious, right?
Now, this is how most of the guys feel when they have to ask a girl out.
It’s like they’re in a new and weird place and most of the time it’s a shot in the dark. But a smile and positive attitude will attract men and make them feel more relaxed. It shows them you’re with an open heart and approachable, and the chances for them to get a date – bigger.
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How to attract the man you like? Find things in common but be honest.
That is an easy way to show he attracts you and a way to see for yourself if this person is as amazing as you feel.
Finding that you like the same books, sports, movies or sharing a hobby interests increases the chances for a successful relationship. Subconsciously he will be attracted to you.
However, don’t try to lie about it just to get his attention. It will be easy for him to spot that on the first or second date and will make him wonder if you’re an honest person at all.
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Last chance to attract him – body language.
It is as important as everything else on our list. The smile and eye contact are one of the ways to show attraction. You can also try to touch his hand or shoulder during a conversation. But try to remember that it should look natural and not weird or unreasonable. You will easily see if he reacts to you and this will be an excellent opportunity to show you feel him more close to you than just a random guy.
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Whatever happens after putting yourself in action, remember – if he likes you, he should do something about it as well.
Never chase a man.
If he doesn’t pay attention to you after a while, don’t chase him and don’t be depressed. He’s just not the right for you, and the best is yet to come.
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