Regardless of whether he is romantic or not, you know you should spoil your guy now and then. Moreover, by being romantic with your loved one, you also improve the quality of your relationship and increase the chances to last longer together.
So how to be more romantic with your boyfriend? How to spoil him but not go over the edge? How to find what makes him happy when it comes to relationship romance?
Below, I’ve collected 10 awesome ideas that will make your man’s eyes teary (almost) and impress him. Stay to the end because I have a few extras for you to take things to the next level.
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1. Take him out and spoil him
Even though most wouldn’t admit it, men love to be spoiled too!
Your man definitely wants to be taken on a date every once in a while, where he doesn’t have to prepare everything himself beforehand. You will get bonus points if you pay for the whole date, just like he has done for you many times in the past.
This change in roles will shift the routine of your relationship and introduce a curious new dynamic. So pick a random day of the week you know you are both free and pamper your man properly. Plan out the evening based on what he likes to do and see him glow up in delight.
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2. Cuddle and talk
Cuddling and talking are typically considered to be very feminine activities, but the truth is that in reality, this isn’t the case at all.
Men enjoy being close to the woman they love, and meaningful conversations are just as important to them as they are to you. Nothing is more romantic than a heart-to-heart conversation where you open up even more to each other and learn new things about the other.
Being romantic with your boyfriend doesn’t have to be some grand gesture. It’s small things like cuddling and talking that count even more. You can take things even further if you offer him to massage his back and neck, which typically holster a lot of tension.
3. Make him a mixtape
Today, mixtapes may seem like a relic from a bygone era. However, making small memorabilia that commemorates your relationship can be incredibly cute, even if it’s a tad cheesy.
You can choose songs special for your relationship or ones you both enjoy, stick them in a playlist, and then share the link with him or transfer the playlist to a USB stick.
That way, he can have a physical copy of the special present you made for him. I once did this for my boyfriend but went further and made the playlist into vinyl since we have a record player. Needless to say – my boyfriend loved it! To this day, we listen to the record every Sunday morning with our traditional pancakes 🙂
4. Turn off your phone and give him your attention
One of the most romantic things you can do for anyone is just to be present. Sweeping gestures and extravagant declarations of love aren’t everybody’s cup of tea, which is understandable.
However, nearly any person you ask will tell you that they appreciate their partner to be warm, affectionate, and present in conversations. This is one thing that forms the connection between couples and can make or break the relationship.
So next time you are pondering on how to be more romantic with your boyfriend, you can simply clear your afternoon and spend it with him instead of buying him a flashy gift. Relationships thrive on these small acts of kindness and respect for the other person, so don’t overlook them. Paying attention is the key to making him feel romanced and valued.
5. Compliment him
Meaningful compliments can be incredibly romantic. But when I say meaningful, I do mean just that. Don’t try to ride on the convenient wave and make remarks about how hot your boyfriend is or how much you like him. Chances are he already knows this; otherwise, why would you be with him in the first place?
Try to articulate what it is about him that makes him so special in your eyes. Is it his smile, his sense of humor, or how principled he is? What are your favorite quirks about his personality? Pointing out small things like that demonstrates that you pay attention and notice them, making the other person feel seen and cherished.
- Cook for him
Men do like it when they are being taken care of, especially so when their woman cooks for them.
Now, I don’t mean to cause any feminist disputes, but cooking for your partner feels very intimate and romantic.
Food is meant to be shared with the ones we hold dearest, which is widely reflected in all types of cultures as well. Consider cooking him a hearty meal, especially after he has had a bad day at work or feels unnaturally stressed out. In today’s busy society, we hardly ever have time to cook, so you can be sure that he will appreciate your small gesture of care.
- Joke around with him
If your boyfriend is anything like the regular man, he must appreciate a good joke. What’s even better is having some shared inside jokes that only the two of you get.
This brings another level to your relationship and can feel incredibly romantic. Just think about it – you are both out with a group of friends, and then someone says something. You look at each other and blurt out something that only the two of you understand. You both grin, much to everyone else’s confused gazes.
- Show him your affection
Is there anything more romantic than the actual display of affection? This doesn’t have to be purely physical (though this one is high on the list) – you can also display affection in numerous other ways.
From words of affirmation, through gift-giving and acts of service, these are all things that can make your man feel loved. It helps if you know what his love language is – that way, you can suit your displays of affection better to his liking.
Of course, there are other easy ways to be romantic on a daily basis. Things like bringing him coffee in bed, reaching out for his hand while on a walk, or stocking up on his favorite cookies can go a long way.
- Show him he is your priority
When you first start your relationship, it’s normal to think of each other 24/7. As you advance to the later stages of your relationship, you might get consumed by work, the children, or other mundane activities throughout your days.
Even if things get quite busy at some point, it’s important to remember that you should prioritize your partner from time to time. If you neglect him, it is likely that the rest will crumble eventually. Think of your relationship as the foundation of everything else in your life, especially if you live together and start a family.
Prioritizing your partner isn’t an act of selfishness; it’s actually a healthy way to show him that romance can be found in even the darkest times.
- Bring back the unexpected
As I mentioned above, every relationship is at risk of falling into a dull old routine sooner or later. This is why it’s important to try and plan dates that are a bit more daring or unusual than what you’re used to. This can help keep the spark alive and spice things up between you and your boyfriend.
Adding adventure and unexpected situations to the relationship can make him feel romanced more than anything.
Men are adventurous types by heart, and deep down inside, they are still little boys that crave adrenaline. You can suggest going rafting, a salsa lesson, or maybe even a hot air balloon ride. Think outside the box as much as possible, and don’t be afraid to go wild. He will appreciate your spontaneity.
Conclusion
How many of the ideas above are you willing to try? Are you shying yourself away from being the one who brings the romance into your relationship?
Here are a few bonuses for you that are strictly cheesy-like romantic ideas:
- Send him any of these 50 romantic messages;
- Go through two weeks of romantic waking up – this challenge gives you 14 ideas on how to spike the romance regardless of how long you’ve been together
- Don’t miss on these 25 more ways to surprise your man.
- See 20 ways to spend quality time together outdoors…
- … and another 50 wow things to do together at home when boredom enters the house.
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