How To Love Your Husband in a Way He Actually Feels It
Why would a random post teach you how to love your husband?
You’ve been together long enough and you know how to handle your marriage, right?
I’ve come to the conclusion that to love your partner is very easy at the beginning of your relationship.
Afterwards, as your relationship deepens it’s getting harder to keep reminding yourself that you need to keep that fire burning between you two.
Once married, kids, mortgage, new car, taxes and loans take over your everyday life and you end up having more serious conversations and less fun. You think with time you’ll manage to get things right, but nobody tells you how long it’s going to take.
Meanwhile, you still love each other.
It’s just harder to express it? Who has time to sit down and plan the ways to love a husband intentionally, romance the marriage and plan evenings with candles?
Yet, your marriage needs you and your husband need to know you love him
So, let me ask you this:
Do you love your husband, but feel guilty you don’t show it to him as often as you’d like?
Do you struggle to find time and ways to nourish your marriage?
I hear you.
In this post, I will give you a comprehensive list of 77 simple ways to love your husband. They will inspire you to find new ways to show appreciation and bring the sparkles back.
Let’s dive in.
77 Simple Tips on How To Love Your Husband
1. Kiss him often and longer. Try holding the kiss for 15 seconds. It makes it so much more romantic.
3. Cook his favourite meal. Even if you already do it often enough.
4. Get dressed especially for him. How long has it been since the last time you actually dressed especially for him?
5. Tell him you love him. Over and over again. Look him in the eyes.
6. Get him his favourite beer. Maybe add some nuts with it?
8. Prepare his lunch for work.
9. Hide a love note in his pocket or in his wallet.
10. Send him a love song. It might sound a bit cheesy, but will make him smile and think of you, trust me.
Show love for your spouse
11. Great him warmly after work. Actually be happy he’s home.
12. Make him a cup of coffee. Give it to him with a kiss.
13. Take a bath together.
14. Ask him about his day and then listen to him as he tells you about it.
15. Send him out with the guys.
16. Go on a walk together.
17. Show interest in his hobby.
18. Share a secret with him. You know you have a few secrets from him. Share one.
19. Dream together. Never stop dreaming together.
20. Surprise him with a romantic weekend away.
Be thoughtful in your love for him
21. Buy him a book.
22. Write him a love letter.
23. Make a romantic fantasy come true. (This here is a bestseller that will help you)
24. Go with him to watch a movie of his choice.
25. Get him a ticket for his favourite team’s game. I promise all of his friends will know you bought him the ticket.
26. Send him a cute short video with a love message.
27. Call him just to tell him you love him.
29. Prepare breakfast in bed for him.
30. Take a shower together.
More ideas to love your man
31. Wake up in the middle of the night and make love.
32. Prepare a cake for him for no reason.
34. Tell him how much you appreciate him.
35. Tell him you are proud of him.
36. Get him a video game.
37. Allow him to devote a full day to his hobby, no matter what it is.
38. Do a chore he usually does.
39. Clean his car. Or gift him this kit that will make him clean his car on the minute.
40. Go on a date together.
41. Encourage him in a difficult time.
42. Tell him he is the strongest man you know.
43. Hold his hand often.
44. Give him a back massage. Alternatively, get him this back massager and he will totally adore you for it.
46. Be happy around him.
47. Ask him about his dreams and goals.
48. Ask him if he needs your help for something. You will be surprised how important this one is. He would probably never ask you or help, so be the first to break the ice.
49. Get him a cute new coffee/tea mug. I love this one, honestly. See my top 5 favourite funny mugs for him:
- “Ew, People” coffee mug
- Mantalk Translator Coffee Mug
- “Today I give Exactly Zero F*cks” mug
- “My Wife Is Hotter Than My Coffee. Yes, She Bought Me This Mug”
- “YODA Best Husband” for all Star Wars’ fans
50. Put on some nice lingerie.
Ideas to love your husband intentionally
51. Play Kisses 4 Us
52. Learn his love language.
53. Compliment him.
54. Surprise him in his lunch break.
55. Organise a romantic dinner for two at home.
56. Send him encouraging quotes every day for a week.
57. Make him laugh.
58. Gift him a romantic songs playlist.
59. Exercise with him. Couples who sweat together stay together, right?
60. Visit his family earlier than planned.
More ways to show love
61. Allow him to have a day for himself only.
62. Tell him he’s handsome.
64. Ask him how to love him better.
67. Often touch him when you pass by him.
68. Support him in the decisions he makes.
69. Show respect daily.
70. Do striptease for him. You know he’ll love it.
Last suggestions to show love for your husband
71. Trust him more.
72. Stay up late talking about him.
73. Ask him about his childhood.
74. Dance with him in the living room.
75. Organise a party with his friends and send him an invitation.
76. Turn off your phone and spend time with him.
77. Truly show love in everything you do for him.
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What to do next?
If you liked these 77 ways to love your husband today, please share in the comments how you show love to your hubby. I’d be happy to know.
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