I’ve been with my husband for almost a decade and still find things I didn’t know about him.
No, it’s not ignorance. It’s the fact that we both had 30 years (more or less) of history before we met one gloomy Sunday.
After so many years, discovering new things about each other is equally sobering and exciting. Who knew that you could sleep next to one person for so many moons and still not know everything about them?
A question a day for couples is my humble poke to encourage you to find out new things about your partner, regardless if you’ve been together for three months or 15 years.
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A Questions A Day For Your Next Month
You could ask those questions after dinner every evening, before breakfast every morning, or anytime throughout the day. You could share your idea with them or use it as a spare source of ideas. The choice is yours.
1. What is your favorite childhood memory?
2. What would you choose if you had the power to change one thing about your life?
3. Do you have a favorite moment of us together?
4. What question have you always wanted to ask me but never found the right moment/mood?
5. What is one thing you dislike about your life and wish you could change?
6. Imagine we’ve just met. Describe yourself in one sentence.
7. How do you keep yourself calm when you are angry/frustrated?
8. When do you feel the most loved?
9. Do you have an example of a situation where you were truly lucky?
10. What is something I do that turns you on quickly?
11. What topic do you feel really obsessed with lately, but I probably don’t know?
12. What would be the one thing that could disappoint you quickly about someone you’ve just met?
13. What was the most disgusting thing you’ve ever eaten (or were offered to eat)?
14. What is one quality I have that makes you happy we’re together?
15. If you could choose any person in the world (dead or alive) that you could meet and talk to, who would it be?
16. If you could choose to master one skill in this world (anything), what would you choose?
17. What scares you the most about our world right now?
18. What is one thing you can never give up?
19. Do you want to create any traditions with your family someday? (you can modify this question to fit your family’s situation)
20. Do you have a fantasy you’ve felt shy to share with me?
21. Do you have a very embracing moment in your past? Would you mind sharing it with me?
22. If you could make just one dream come true, which would you choose?
23. Imagine you can see only one color. Which one would you choose?
24. Can you name one quality you possess that you are proud of?
25. What would you be called if you had to choose a name from a book (or a movie)?
26. What was your dream job as a child?
27. Do you have a memory you never want to forget or a moment you want to experience again?
28. Imagine you are in your 70s. How would you like to spend your days?
29. How close do you feel to living your dream life?
30. What do you think happens after we die?
A Question A Day for Couples PDF + Journal
Of course, I am going to shower you with some goodies. For free.
You can grab the simple PDF version of the questionnaire, save it on your device and open it when needed.
Alternatively, you can steal the simple printable journal I’ve created for this “a question a day for couples” challenge (can we call it a challenge?). To do that, click here.
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