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Understanding Her Silence: 7 Signs When a Woman Gives Up on a Relationship

How to know when a woman gives up on a relationship…YOUR woman gives up on YOUR relationship?

You love her, but you’ve had a rocky few months or even years if you are in a long-term relationship. She’s been acting strange lately, and you cannot pinpoint what exactly has changed.

Is it because she’s tired of the relationship? Is it because she’s having an affair? Is it just in your head, and things are as they’ve always been?

Today I share 7 signs almost every woman will show at some point before she packs her bags and tell you she’s leaving you forever and you should never call her again.

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If you’re sure things are bad and want the shortcut to her love (again): Here are 1000 questions that will make her hand her heart into your hands.

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Signs That a Woman is Fed Up in a Relationship

When a woman gives up on a relationship, she responds to everything with ‘Okay.’

And it’s not the “Okay!’ with an exclamation mark at the end. No! She says it like she means it, but not in a good way.

She says, ‘Okay.’ like she’s tired and doesn’t want to argue, but also doesn’t care if you are okay with her ‘Okay.’… if that makes any sense.

Her intonation is a little bit like, ‘I don’t care! It’s fine, and it truly is, just not in a positive way.‘ Your woman says, ‘Okay,’ and she’s sad about it.

That means she is not just okay with what you’ve just told her (let’s say you’ve canceled plans together for the weekend because you’ve got something coming up with the guys). She is sad about every other time you’ve canceled plans, but because that would be the 35694th time you would argue about it, she doesn’t even bother starting it.

You think everything’s fine, and she’s just accepting things. She believes that’s another nail in the coffin of your relationship.

She shows no concern about you, which means she is giving up on the relationship.

You’re alive, and that seems to be enough for her. It sounds harsh, but that’s the way she acts. You tell her something happened, and she doesn’t get into your overwhelmed-a-bit-stressed mood. As soon as she makes sure you’re physically okay, she puts a stop to her ‘care.’

Of course, that doesn’t feel normal. And it isn’t. You’re slowly becoming the ex she occasionally wants to gossip about. It’s not cool, but it’s the reality of the situation.

She doesn’t insist on knowing where you are and what you’re doing.

You used to get so annoyed when she texted you asking where you were. You miss her thousand questions about what you’re doing and how long before you get to her. Yes, you thought she was a bit clingy, but you liked it on some level.

You miss that because she doesn’t really ask you anything lately. It almost feels like she’s waiting for you to go to her, to tell her stuff… yet, when you do, she doesn’t care.

And yes, that’s a huge sign she is slowly giving up on the thought of being in a relationship with you.

She has detached physically and emotionally from you.

She’s been a bit weird with your sexy time lately, but even when you’re in the act of doing something together… she’s not even present with you.

I mean, physically, she’s there, but SHE isn’t. You ask her what’s wrong, and she says, ‘Nothing‘, and it’s like she seriously won’t share what’s happening.

So you stop asking because she should act like an adult and just say what the matter is.

Yep, your girlfriend is giving up on her relationship with you, and you might be hearing more about this soon.

If you’re sure things are bad and want the shortcut to her love (again): Here are 1000 questions that will make her hand her heart into your hands.

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The girls are more important than you

She used to ask you if you’ve got weekend plans, so she could organize something with her bestie. However, now she is letting you know she already has plans for Friday night, and you feel something doesn’t match the picture.

It doesn’t!

When two people are in a healthy and loving relationship, they prioritize time for each other and then arrange meetings with friends. Of course, if you live together, things might be a bit loose, but still… ‘Do you have something planned for the weekend, or shall I fix something with the girls?‘ is kind of a 5-second-long question every woman would ask.

If she doesn’t… she no longer intends to change her plans according to your desires. She is over with the relationship.

She prefers spending time alone than with you

I know it sounds like a very easy-to-catch sign, but it isn’t.

When a woman gives up on a relationship, she would tell you she’s very tired and needs some alone time. She would need it multiple times a week, and it’s not like she’s going somewhere.

Here’s what she does.

She puts her pajamas on and watches Netflix until 4 a.m. She makes herself a bath and stays for hours by the window reading books, scrolling on social media, or cooking something she loves.

Yes, even if you live together, you will notice she’s ‘away’ and by herself – in another room, going to sleep earlier than usual, not asking you to do something together.

All those are subtle signs your lady is pulling away from the relationship.

The Biggest Sign: You Don’t Argue Anymore

You used to hate it when she was picking fights for anything and everything. Whether it’s her hormones, neediness, or insecurities, you felt watched under a magnifying glass.

And even if she wouldn’t start a fight, she would at least voice her concerns and let you know she isn’t okay with something.

And then it all became quiet.

You didn’t even notice it for a while. She’s probably finally learned you are who you are, and you both should accept each other.

You said she shouldn’t care so much about everything… so she stopped caring about anything.

And she stopped arguing with you. She stopped challenging you. She is silent. Too silent.

You are in trouble once a woman goes silent for a few hours. But if she’s been silent for weeks… there is almost nothing to stop her from leaving – she has given up on your relationship.

If you’re sure things are bad and want the shortcut to her love (again): Here are 1000 questions that will make her hand her heart into your hands.

Why Doesn’t She Just Say Something?

I am going to be the annoying one to tell you… hmm, she did tell you. A lot of times. Everything you read so far that is missing was her letting you know something’s not okay.

And I can guarantee you that at first, she was trying to talk to you about it. Then she was getting annoyed. When you didn’t offer change or adjust to the situation, she became furious, and things became unbearable. And then it all went silent. She gave up.

But she tried.

Why Doesn’t She Just Leave if She Doesn’t Care About You?

She will! Have no doubts about that. It sounds rude and hurtful, but she is arranging things for herself. Whether that would be waiting for a specific time of the year (let’s say after someone’s birthday or holiday) or saving some money for rent (if she has to move out), she is waiting for something to happen before she walks out of that door.

And she won’t be coming back. Because she’d given up, and you noticed it too late.

What If You Don’t Want Her To Give Up On Your Relationship

Once the shock is gone and once you go past the phase of ‘If she doesn’t want to be with me, then she should just leave!‘ it is time you ask yourself: Do you want her to give up on your relationship?

Are you ready to end things with her and never see her again?

Are you okay with her not being part of your life?

Of course, you will miss her for a while; it’s how it is when someone you share bed and thoughts with leaves.

But do you wish she wouldn’t leave?

Do you wish to start working on this thing she’s giving up on and just make it alright? Not like before, but better? Like… starting fresh and falling in love with each other all over again?

Of course, it’s possible. Couples with all types of backgrounds have failed, but also, couples with all types of backgrounds have succeeded. Which statistic do you want to be part of?

The Secret to Understanding Women and Making Them Care About You Again

She still cares, though! She doesn’t show it. She has given up, but the spark is still hidden in the ashes of your broken relationship, waiting for oxygen to loom into a beautiful, passionate fire. It might need some encouragement, but it’s there.

Your lady believes she’s tried everything to make things work, but you ignored her. You didn’t know she was trying at all. You didn’t notice the innocent misunderstandings were hurting her sensitive heart more than she showed.

It was up to her to try. It is up to you to make it happen now. If you want to, of course!

The secret to changing her mind is to get inside of it. You want her to open her heart to you again. She has to start caring once again so you both thrive. And that happens only once you start caring too.

Communicating the right way!

Women thrive when they are part of a good talk. They get excited and forget about sleep and food when invested in a conversation that makes them feel heard, valued, and appreciated. I mean.. that sounds like something you would like too, right?

And you know that ‘communication’ is the one thing most women brag that it’s missing from the relationship. They mention it in every argument and every time you’re trying to see the sports news or switch your brain off on Social Media for a minute.

Well, that’s the weak spot in every relationship with issues. That is why we go for it first.

Improving your conversations with your woman is your only chance to make things right and enjoy happy moments with your girl.

How to converse with her if she doesn’t want to talk?

I hear you! She’s been weird and ignorant for way too long. Asking her, ‘What’s wrong?’ for the millionth time won’t do anything.

But asking her the right questions will!

You know that, too often, success in life depends on asking the right questions. Well, it’s the same with relationships. Asking your partner questions that create a deeper connection between you two is crucial for building a strong partnership.

And I’ve got 1000 questions for you to ask her (yes, that is a thousand; the number of zeros is correct). Curious to see them? Click here to access them!

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