It’s no secret that women are more romantic than men. They will hug you from behind, spoil you, give you a pet name…aren’t they the cutest? That’s why women expect the same. They will appreciate it if you know how to make small (and not so small) gestures to make them happy. Here’s an example.
My boyfriend is the most romantic guy I’ve ever met. And that’s one of the reasons I stayed with him. He leaves small notes in my pocket, buys me small gifts all the time, rubs my back after a long day, and ultimately he not only takes care of me, but he makes me feel like the most special girl in the world.
So, if you assume that getting together with her was the hard part, then you’re in for a ride. I’m sorry to break it to you but keeping her is even more challenging. Why? Because relationships require “maintenance”.
So if you want to keep her in your life, you must constantly put effort into making her happy. And if you’re not the romantic type but still want to express your love for her, then you’ve come to the right place.
Here are 77 swoon-worthy gestures that will impress your new girlfriend.
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77 Ways To Impress Your New Girlfriend
1. Giving her a five senses gift.
A five-senses gift is when you give your woman five different gifts that stimulate her five senses.
Here’s an example:
- Taste – chocolate or her favorite coffee;
- Touch – soft scarf, sweatshirt or an adorable Teddy bear;
- Smell – her favorite parfume or aroma candle;
- Sound – a playlist with her favorite songs;
- Sight – a framed photo of you two.
All that’s left for you is to wrap these gifts separately and add tags with the name of the represented sense.
2. Learn her love language and “speak” it.
We all have a specific love language that helps us understand and “accept” love easier. Gary Chapman’s bestseller says all about it, but if you’d like to get the summary, here’s my review on it.
The main idea is that your girlfriend will be impressed even by the smallest gesture as long it is “spoken” in her love language. Here are the five love languages:
- Words of affirmation – telling her you love her and how amazing she is;
- Acts of service – doing little gestures for her, such as making her a cup of tea, covering her with a blanket while she’s reading her book or giving her a foot massage;
- Gifts – buying her little (or big) gifts;
- Quality time together – this includes meaningful conversations, date nights, and more.
- Physical touch – holding her hand while in public, kissing her forehead, hugging her with or without a reason (do not think that everything physical ends up in the bedroom, this love language is more than that).
If you are curious to learn her love language, click here.
3. Get her a Bond Touch bracelet.
These are two bracelets connected through an app on your phone. Every time you press a button on your bracelet, hers vibrates and makes a sound. It would also mean that you think of her or tell her I love you. It’s a huge thing to gift her with, and she will be more than impressed.
4. Send her a care package.
A care package is like a self-care box or basket. You will have two options:
- Build it yourself and add inside products she likes, such as a face mask, a candle, cozy socks, maybe a book.
- Get her one from the shop or Etsy. I personally prefer the Etsy option as they always feel more personal and special (plus, she won’t see it later in the shop). This self-care basket is affordable and has everything your girlfriend would want.
5. Get her an advent skincare calendar.
You know what an advent calendar is, right? Well, in a skincare advent calendar, instead of chocolates, you will find skincare products. In case you didn’t know it – that’s every woman’s dream – bundle with over 20 tiny cute skincare products for her to explore, one day at a time (if she’s patient enough to do it once a day).
The benefits of getting her this calendar are that it will fit her taste regardless of her taste. She will find things she loves inside because there are plenty of products. The other huge benefit for you is that it won’t cost you too much. In fact, this advent calendar by Asos is just under $100, which is a deal-to-steal.
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6. Tell her that you will give her space if she needs it.
7. Be positive about meeting her friends and family.
8. Frame one of your pictures together and give it to her as a gift.
This is so easy but truly swoon-worthy. And if you’d like to walk the extra mile, why not engrave your photo together on wood. See how it would actually look here.
9. Take care of her pets when she’s busy.
10. Remember the important dates, such as your first kiss.
11. Take her to the restaurant you had your first date. Bonus points if you book the same table.
12. Make her a Spotify playlist with all the songs that remind you of her.
13. Get her a spa day voucher.
14. Get tickets to her favorite band’s concert.
15. Throw her a surprise party for her birthday.
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16. Set up a scavenger hunt in your house with her favorite snacks.
17. Help her with her bucket list.
She has dreams you could be part of. Big or small, there are ways to get her closer to achieving them. For example, my fiance got me my first fountain pen ever, and it made me cry because it represented so many things to me. It wasn’t an expensive one, but the gesture was something I will always remember.
18. Take her for a weekend road trip.
19. Make her hot chocolate when it’s that time of the month.
In fact, the more gestures you make for her at “that time of the month,” the more she will fall in love with you. Hey, this is a secret that guys aren’t supposed to know, so pretend I didn’t tell you.
20. Introduce her to your friends and family. It would show her you truly want her in your life for more than a month.
21. Tell her that she’s beautiful every day. She will never get tired of hearing it.
22. Never forget a good night text. See these 17 text messages you could send her to sweep her off her feet right now.
23. Make up a cute nickname for her.
24. Open up to her about how you feel.
25. Show her that she can trust you.
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26. Buy her a perfume that reminds you of her.
27. Cook her breakfast every time you stay over. Bonus points if you bring the breakfast to the bed.
28. Give her a massage after a long day.
29. Leave cute notes in her pockets.
30. Buy her a giant teddy bear.
31. Buy her flowers with no occasion.
32. Be honest about how you feel. Nothing impresses a woman more than a man who isn’t afraid to talk about feelings.
33. Get her a snuggly sweater like this one. Make sure it’s a bit oversized; it’s trendy.
34. Do the dishes when you eat together. But be careful, she might want to marry you if you do that.
35. Give her a call instead of texting her. Tell her you missed her voice.
36. Take her to the movie theatre.
37. Bring home her favorite takeout as a surprise.
38. Surprise her with something nice if she has had a bad day.
39. Go to her work to have lunch together.
40. Bring her coffee in bed.
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41. Buy her a fancy leather journal like this one. Every girl wants one of those, even if she never does anything with it.
42. Get her quartz jewelry for good luck.
43. Make it official on your socials.
44. Pack her lunch.
45. Take her to your favorite places.
46. Share your secret family recipe with her.
47. Bake her cookies.
48. Remind her why you fell in love with her.
49. Put in an extra effort with the people she loves.
50. Let her know you’re thinking about her by sending her cute texts.
51. Learn a new skill together and take her to a class.
52. Most women like a fancy candle. Get her one that smells nice.
53. Get her a cute mug for her morning coffee.
54. Encourage her to take some time off.
55. Buy her bath bombs for a self-care day.
56. Take her to Sephora and buy her some make-up.
57. Show off with her on your Instagram.
58. Take her as your plus 1 to the company’s party.
59. Sign her up for a subscription box.
60. Buy her a book that reminds you of her.
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61. Even better – get her a kindle, so she doesn’t have to bring her books everywhere.
62. Go for a late-night drive around the city while you vibe on your favorite playlist.
63. Get her a sweet flavored chopstick to keep her lips soft during the winter.
64. Play with her hair while the two of you are watching TV.
65. Get your dessert to-go at the restaurant so the two of you can eat it at home.
66. Make the bed while she’s in the shower or getting ready.
67. Offer to help her with one thing on her weekend to-do list.
68. Drive her to work instead of leaving her to take public transport.
69. Get her a little nightgown or pajamas to keep her warm.
70. Cuddle her unexpectedly while in public.
71. Make her favorite cocktail after a long workweek.
72. Appreciate her efforts and tell her she’s doing great.
73. Compile a small list of fun things going on in your city.
74. Take her to the local farmer’s market on Saturday morning.
75. Rub her back for no reason.
76. Start watching a show with her and have a designated day when you watch it together.
77. Take her to get her nails done.
Conclusion
There is one last piece of advice I will give you – whatever swoon-worthy gesture you decide to do for your new girlfriend, make sure it is something you want to do as well. Don’t pick any idea just because you have to. Do it with love and be thoughtful because this is what your girlfriend will appreciate about you. This is what she will remember every time she looks at the photo, drinks from the mug, or light the candle up.
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77 Swoon-Worthy Gestures That Will Impress Your New Girlfriend
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