Understanding the men
Sex, sex and everything around it… you may say! Moreover, even though you are partially right, it is not only that! We, the women often find out in the middle of a conversation with our men that they find us sexy and attractive in many ways. Even when we do something, we would never consider as sexy. However, they do. We asked, and they answered – What do guys find is hot in their girls? Then we made a list of the 20 most attractive, hot and sexy things we do every day and they love us for that. Some of them we knew about and others – we had no idea they might go to the “sexy” column.
20: A healthy way of life every day
I know! Who would think that your healthy diet may be sexy or attractive? However, guys like to see that the woman can take care of her health. That would automatically mean that being with her makes his life healthier as well. A woman that knows what’s good for his body is something rear nowadays. With all the fast/junk food/ready meals options out there healthy and delicious dinner is fresh, impressive and attractive. On top of that, on a subconscious level healthy woman increases the chances for healthier and happier children – which is always important, right?
19: To actually eat
I am not messing around with you! To go out to a restaurant with girls that need a half hour to pick the meal she wants to eat just because everything has too much fat or will make her waist wider with 0.06sm is annoying. Having healthy eating habits has nothing to do with counting calories. So having a girl that can sit at dinner time and eat with obvious pleaser, enjoying the meal and the company, is precious and sexy. Hey, that is what men say, so… when is dinner time?
18: To be gentle
Leaving the world of food and coming to something really pleasurable and enjoyable – to be gentle. Not only to him but with everything around you – while you are playing with the children, folding clothes or talking to your best friend. Guys notice the pace, the gentle touch, look, tone, the care in your eyes, even when you don’t see it. That is what makes us sexy, attractive, desirable. It makes us women.
17: Nice skin is essential
Ok, you know that! Moreover, because you know it you have got the five different creams in your makeup bag and the three rubbing gels in the bathroom. Plus.. everything else around it. But just because the guys said it, we had to repeat it! Soft skin makes men wonder how on earth is possible to exist something so amazing in touch; it brings the vision of touching you in the bed, it makes their hands flying towards you every single time you pass them… It’s just unbelievable how much they like it.
16: Small boobs are allowed
Boobs and men! It feels like if there’s something that doesn’t exist in this world – that’s a man that doesn’t like boobs. Everything else is possible but that! But the thing is that most women believe man love big boobs while research proves that actually, men prefer smaller once. So instead of thinking about how to resize our bras by implants, better to accept ourselves the way we are and be happy with it.
15: No makeup policy
First – it will save you money and second: you will look sexy for your guy. Majority of men prefer their girl to look as natural as possible. It is not attractive to touch her face and after that their hands to sparkle because of the glitter in the powder. No one says “No!” to the makeup but as natural as possible as often as possible is the best match. Your man loves you because of many things, but it’s rear to find a guy that’s in love because his girlfriend looks good with makeup. Loving yourself the way you are, it’s not going with no mascara all year round, but it doesn’t mean 15 layers of eyeshadows as well.
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14: To be enthusiastic
No one is talking about becoming a jumping doll. But looking and feeling enthusiastic about the things in life is attractive and many men consider it sexy as well. The power of spreading positive energy comes with the enthusiasm you show for everything. Passion, commitment and positivity – the main strings of enthusiasm, drag your men’s eyes toward you. So show out that energy, girls! Your loved ones see it and love it. (we asked …)!
There are not many men that don’t pay attention to a woman’s hair. And they certainly don’t notice split ends or different colour as much as we think them. But the softness of a healthy and well-maintained hair is considered as sexy and attractive part of a woman. Men like to go through their girls’ hair, they like its fresh smell, and they love to be tickled by it in the bed. So don’t be traumatised he did not notice you’ve changed the colour – he still notices how amazing your hair is.
12: A smile brings another smile
The smile and the laugh are expressions of happiness and joy. One of the top sexy and attractive things for men is to see a happy woman. No makeup or hairstylist could bring the great vibes a laughing happy girl could. It’s just mesmerising how the men cannot take their eyes off a happy woman. It makes them smile and feel good as well. Being able to have fun is important to the men. It means self-love and acceptance. Moreover, nobody likes grumpy or worried faces, no matter what. So, just be happy! It makes him happy too.
11: Smart is not a shameful disease
Yes, there are men in this world that feel like smart women bring only headaches or are afraid of being fooled by them. But actually, the majority of men prefer smart. Smart is sexy! The pink dolls you’re so worried about and want to look like them, are nothing more but a trophy men show around and then put back on the shelf. A serious relationship that will fulfil their desire is with smart girls. With the time n a relationship or marriage, we all get to a point when we need a nice talk, advice, support or just someone to stay quiet with. And I do not know if you’re aware of that but even to know when to stay in silence and when to talk requires a brain. Be happy you have it!
10: Your lips are his dream
“Her lips are like living fire” W. Somerset Maugham said. The lips are the most sexual organ that a woman could expose. The men love the softness, the taste, the bite of the girls’ lips. They love everything about them for many reasons. The women’s lips kiss them, tells them words of love, they are the frame of every smile and brings promises for sexual pleasure as well. Dear girls, look after your lips and use them wisely as believe it or not – they are one of your sweet advantages in this world.
9: To initiate sex
Yes, we got to that part finally! No way to skip it. Men love when their other half initiate the sex. It turns them on, it makes them feel desired and sexy. And everybody loves that! There are many ways to initiate sex even if you’re a bit shy for one or another reason. You could find amazing ideas here or if you want to know what makes him crazy in the bed – there’s some info here. Just don’t forget to let us know how it went.
8: When they ask for help
Surprising, isn’t it? Somehow we’re not supposed to ask for help because it makes us look weak. But on the other hand, they want us to ask them for it? Make up your mind, gentlemen! Let’s make it as simple as possible – when you can do something alone just do it. But if you need help with something – ask! It is not going to make you weak but it will make him feel useful, respected and a bit more… hm, a man! They are the strong half of the relationship and it’s called partnership as well. And that means to help each other in any step – from taking down the curtains to sharing fears and worries. It doesn’t sound sexy but it’s very attractive.
7: Surprise him tonight… and tomorrow
I don’t refer only to the sex part, although it’s important to keep the sexuality on a high level by surprising him once in a while. But not every gesture should lead you to the bedroom adventures. Men say they feel attracted to their loved ones when they surprise them with anything. It could be his favourite meal, a planned night out, new socks or a hat, help with some tasks or even simple motivation to keep going. Anything that takes you out of your way and shows them you think about them. It’s attractive! It’s sexy!
Related post: 7 WAYS TO SURPRISE YOUR MAN TONIGHT
6: Who’s the boss?
No, I played with the words again.
I won’t ask you to go and tell him he’s your boss. Probably the opposite… Let me explain before I lose your attention. Many men believe that when the girl’s acting a little bit bossy is very sexy. It’s connected to the confidence, plus adding some sexual fantasies, and there’s the answer to why it’s sexy. But don’t mix the sweet, little bossy with the arrogant, selfish and showing too much ego bossiness. And not all the time because it’ll look creepy.
5: Stretching yourself
When you wake up in the morning, and those first stretches in the bed wake up your mind and body it feels good, isn’t it? Well, it feels good to your men as well! Men think it’s so sexy when a girl stretches herself. Hands in the air or touching the neck, the back… some skin here and there – unintentional of course. That drives them crazy and wakes up not only their mind…! (the answer is your homework).
4: Small touches
You cook, and he passes behind you touching your waste or whatever he’s used to touching on you… and you feel loved. You like the attention and the feeling of closeness. Well, it works the other way around too. Men think it’s very sexy when their girl touch them accidentally or not. It could be the shoulder, the back, the hand or anywhere else – it brings your touch straight to his head. They feel your love; they know you think about them, and that’s attractive and sexy.
3: Girl on a mission
You know what you want in life, and you walk toward it every day. Not everyone does that. So it’s different, it’s something unique, and that’s why it’s sexy. As well as confidence and bossiness, having a clear vision of what you want in life is so attractive to men. It’s rear to find someone that knows what he or she wants from life. So once you see it out there – it’s hard to step away and not embrace it.
2: Passion or hobby
The hobby is a passion, right? Going into the moment and forgetting about time and people… yes, it’s a passion. It doesn’t matter if it’s knitting, dancing, paper craft or collecting leaves – the hobby is your unique passion. It makes your eyes glowing and looks like magic that only you understand. Now, you see why the men put it on the list of the sexiest and hottest things, right?
1: To be confident
You may roll your eyes about that one, but confidence is sexy. A confident woman looks different – she walks with a straight back, she moves with certainty, she looks at the others’ eyes with the knowledge she is beautiful, smart and deserves everything bright in this world. And that, my ladies, is irresistible and sexy! So, have a good look in the mirror and finally allow yourself to realise how incredible, kind, beautiful woman you are. And you deserve to be proud of it.