30 Biggest Turn-Ons For Guys You Should Know Of

Do you know what your partner’s turn-ons are?

And no, I don’t mean this in the way you think of. Turn-ons are anything that you say or do, making your partner feel glad for dating you and even loving you a bit more along the way. This is why it’s important to know what turns on the other and revisit these points every once in a while. 

Relationships are hard work, which often requires maintenance along the way, even if you have been together for a while. And if you are just starting out, it’s even more crucial to discuss what turns on both of you. 

Some of the things that turn us on aren’t as visible as others. This is why in today’s blog post, I will present to you a list of the biggest turn-ons for guys. Some are obvious, others aren’t as much but either way, I urge you to consider the points I have outlined below and experiment with them to an extent you are comfortable with. 

Happy reading!

P.S.: To all the men reading this post: What are your turn-ons?

Biggest Turn-Ons For Guys

1. Taking initiative

Guys love it when a woman takes the initiative and knows what she wants to do. So, ladies, take points and don’t wait for him to suggest where to go for your next date night. 

2. Wear red

For some reason, men are obsessed with the rich red color. If you wear it on your lips, nails, or clothes – you are bound to make his head spin in your direction.

3. Playing with your hair 

Another major turn-on for men is when women play with their hair. It doesn’t matter if you have long locks or a shorter hairstyle – if you get creative, you’ll see how his demeanor changes. 

4. Witty banter

Guys love a girl that can hold up to their funny way of conversing. Try exchanging witty or even snarky remarks with your guy and see how he reacts. 

5. Allowing him to take care of you 

Men like to fill in the role of protectors, so next time you can’t reach a high place in the house or can’t open your jar, reach out for his help. He will be delighted to be your knight in shining armor. 

6. Paying the bill

Guys are so used to paying the bill by default that it would be a pleasant surprise if you reach out for it next time. This shift in roles is sure to get his attention. 

7. Cooking him food

Which man isn’t attracted to a woman that knows her way around the kitchen? It’s not a coincidence that the saying goes like this: the way to a man’s heart is through the stomach. 

8. Taking care of him when he is sick 

Even though the toxic masculinity culture heavily influences most men, any of them would appreciate being taken care of in a time of need. Making him soup and tending to his needs will definitely steal his heart. 

9. Joking around 

Have you noticed that most men love joking around? If you are the type of girl who can handle his jokes and joke right back, this will surely leave a big impression.  

10. Skin to skin contact

You don’t have to put a lot of effort into this one – just light brushing of your hands would also do the trick. Touching each other’s skin actually sends chemical impulses to the brain, which he can’t consciously control. 

11. Being vulnerable 

Men like it when women open up to them. Touching above, they enjoy being needed and acting as protectors. He will likely be honored and feel special if you decide to share some heart-to-heart topics with him. 

12. Wearing oversized clothes

One of the most common turn-ons for men is seeing a woman wearing oversized clothes. Preferably one of their hoodies or a white dress shirt. 

13. Girl smell

One of the biggest turn-ons for guys has to be how women smell. And how can we not smell so lovely, considering all the aromatic shower gels, skin creams, and perfumes we use? 

14. Able to take a joke

Man humor can sometimes be a bit blunt and unthoughtful. This is why when they meet a woman that goes along that sense of humor without getting offended, they will likely raise an eyebrow in surprise. 

15. Curiosity

It’s always nice when your partner asks many of the right questions. For men, who are often analytical and rational, being curious is a given, which is why they enjoy finding this trait in their potential partners as well. 

16. Cuddling

Who says men don’t like cuddles? On a lazy Sunday afternoon, there is nothing nicer for guys than snuggling with their loved one under the blanket. Or anytime, really. 

17. Letting him be the little spoon 

And while on the topic of cuddling, men enjoy being the little spoon every once in a while. Don’t wait for him to ask because he probably never will – take the initiative and snuggle behind him for once. 

18. Ability to hold a conversation

Men are drawn to intelligent women like bees to honey. If you are intelligent, well-educated, critical, and able to tackle nearly any topic thrown your way, he will be stunned. 

19. Beautiful eyes

No man can resist a woman with beautiful eyes. If you think your eyes are the accent of your face, try to make them pop even more by wearing subtle makeup. 

20. Girls with glasses

Speaking of eyes, I have found that many men get turned on by girls that wear glasses. And no, I don’t necessarily mean that in a sexual way – glasses simply evoke intelligence and knowledge. 

21. Maturity

Being mature is a major turn-on for men. While many women think acting childish and immature is “cute”, men can actually pull away from such sort of behavior. 

22. Gaming

Men can appreciate any woman that can understand their passion for gaming and don’t try to nag them out of that. Bonus points if you offer to play some games together. 

23. Modesty

No one likes people who brag about themselves all the time – men and women alike. For men, however, this can be a major turn-off and can communicate all the wrong things about your personality. 

24. Eye contact

Initiating frequent eye contact with someone sends them the subconscious signal that you like them. This is why eye contact is a big turn-on for men, whether they realize why or not. 

25. Sharing chocolates

Men like chocolates just as much as women do. This is why they are delighted when their girl offers to share some chocolaty delights with them. 

26. Being spontaneous

If a woman is spontaneous and adventurous, she is bound to have a flock of guys around her at all times. Men enjoy adventure and random activities, so finding someone who can accompany them in that is a big plus. 

27. Going out of comfort zone

Being brave is one of the most understated personality traits. If you start doing things that scare you, men around you will likely take note of that behavior change. 

28. Giving him your full attention 

It’s not only women who want attention – men seek it as well, even if not so actively. Try to give your guy your undivided attention when talking to you. This will definitely make him feel special. 

29. Cooking together

This is one of my boyfriend’s biggest turn-ons, and it’s so simple to do! Cooking together enforces our teamwork and draws us closer together, which makes him feel warm on the inside. 

30. Planning together

Planning future trips and events together indicates how strong your relationship is and that you want to be in each other’s lives for the foreseeable future. If that’s not a big turn-on, I don’t know what is. 

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30 Biggest Turn-Ons For Guys