How To Make My Boyfriend Feel Special On His Birthday (Actionable Ideas)

My partner had a birthday last week, and for the first time in the seven years we have been together, we celebrated it the full week. I didn’t ask him if he wanted it that way, but I craved to make him feel special, loved, and cherished.

For many reasons, we couldn’t properly celebrate his birthdays in the previous three years (we lost a family member, and restrictions really took the fun away).

And that broke my heart a little bit. He is an amazing man and deserves all the goodness a birthday celebration could offer.

So, after spending a few hours browsing Reddit, Quora, and other blogs, I came up with a simple plan. His birthday had to have:

• Something naughty;
• Something romantic;
• Something unavoidable;
• Something fun.

Oh, so much mystery. No worries, I will tell you everything I did and throw in a few extra ideas too. So, here’s what you need to do to make your boyfriend feel special on his birthday.

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Something Naughty For Your Boyfriend’s Birthday

We are all grownups here, right? I assume it wouldn’t come as a shock that a guy would always (absolutely no exceptions) appreciate a naughty and spicy celebration of his birthday.

Reddit users were very open and honest that a man would be happy with the bare minimum of lovey-dovey acts of affection.

However…

I think “the bare minimum” should be kept for those gloomy Thursday evenings when you’re already exhausted by work and traffic but need a quicky to cool off.

When your boyfriend has a birthday, you lock that “bare minimum” somewhere in the wardrobe and put your best ideas ahead instead.

So, here are a few ideas for you.

Spice Up Date Night

Mystery boxes are a thing, you know? Instead of thinking for hours about what to do to spice up your boyfriend’s birthday, why not get a mystery adult or date night box and work(it)out together?

Yes, adult boxes are popular lately because items are ready-to-use; you avoid going to adult shops (if you’re too shy to do that) and save time. Plus, your man would be thrilled, and you will be equally excited.

Need some awesome suggestions?

Seductive Pleasureâ„¢
from: Cratejoy

• This Adult Box for Couples that you could receive bi-monthly if you’d like. Imagine your boyfriend’s face realizing his birthday just got so much better.
• Get yourself an adult costume and role-play together.
• Play a spicy adult game together. Why not try this one? That’s an especially good idea if you’ve never done it before.
• Romantic bath experience for two: you set up the bath, get all the bath bombs going, the candles ate lit, and the music is soft and enticing. The rest you can figure out by yourselves.

Here’s what I did.

Spicy “Follow the instructions” Game for Couples

I was strolling the shops for his gift and saw a black miniskirt through a shop’s window. The idea of doing something special for my man caught me by surprise, and ten minutes later, I had that miniskirt, tights similar to these ones, and lace lingerie in my shopping bag (but no gift, lol).

My man works until late at night and usually gets home at around 11ish (often later than that). I go to sleep earlier than that, as I wake up at 5 a.m. most mornings. Therefore, I knew he wouldn’t expect me to be awake when he got home.

I left him small envelopes with notes around the house with instructions on what to do.

He was supposed to enjoy a drink of my choice (I prepared that in advance) and then move to the bathroom. There he would find another note asking him to shower and then open the next envelope with instructions.

That note was telling him to dress in whatever clothes I had left for him and get to the living room to find the next envelope. Then, he had to place a chair in the middle of the living room, sit on it, and text me he was ready.

When he did all that, I tiptoed out of the bedroom (there was a rule in the very first note that he was forbidden to enter that room). I was dressed in lingerie, a miniskirt, tights, and a white shirt, and I had my fave red high heels on. Although my hair was a mess, I even put some makeup on. I kept the TV remote with me and turned this song on.

A few minutes of dance moves, taking the clothes off, and the rest is history. Well… I must admit we both enjoyed it.

What would your naughty surprise for your boyfriend be?

Romantic Surprises for Your Boyfriend’s Birthday

Okay, let’s exit the spicy content and be more romantic. On the morning of his birthday, I surprised my man with breakfast in bed.

I woke up hours before him, so I had time to make pancakes (he loves them). When I heard he was awake, I forbid him to leave the bed. I then arranged his breakfast on a wooden tray and served it in the bedroom. We had a very pleasant chat, and he did feel special.

Here are a few more romantic ideas for your boyfriend’s birthday:

• Romantic evening walk by the water;
• Dinner for two at his favorite restaurant;
• Dinner for two at home, on the floor, watching a favorite movie, a few candles around… mmm, awesome.
• Head and full body massage using this heavenly good massaging oil for two.
• If he loves reading books, why not get a book to read together – you can read to him or let him read his favorite chapters to you.
• Try this date-night box for two – it’s romantic and not so spicy.
• Lunch in the park and walk afterward.
• A day trip to a nearby town or city he’s been wanting to visit.
• Go to the cinema to see a movie and then book a table at a restaurant;
• Romantic dinner for two on the top of a mountain or building in your city that allows you to enjoy the gorgeous night view.
• Make a collage video of your best moments together, and watch it instead of a movie.

Something Fun To Gift Your Boyfriend With On His Birthday

We had a party at our house. My man is a huge extrovert and thrives when surrounded by his friends. He is all about the nice chat with the boys (if you consider cars and football “nice” subjects). So we had that plus a delicious cake.

If your boyfriend is an extrovert, make sure to involve other people on his birthday too. If he is an introvert, then planning dinner with his closest people is easy.

Here are more awesome fun gift ideas for your boyfriend’s birthday:

• Take him to a stand-up comedy show with his favorite comedian;
• Get him concert tickets to see his favorite band;
• Does he love football? Awesome. You can pick between getting him tickets for a game of his favorite team or a visit to their stadium (those are usually awesome).
• For the calm man in your life, fun could be visiting a favorite museum.
• Most man will hit their buts in the ceiling if they get a stunt drive lesson, jet fighter ride, or parkour lesson. Any thoughts on those?
• Carting is always fun too;
• A wild surprise party at your place or a restaurant would also make him truly happy.

Gift Ideas for Your Boyfriend’s Birthday

Yeah, remember the “something unavoidable” part? It’s the gift, hun. We can never skip the actual physical gift. It could be a t-shirt by his favorite brand or a toothbrush that tells you the weather (not a clue if that exists). The point is, you must get him something that can fit into a gift bag.

I’ve got a few ideas for you below.

For The Football Fan

Get him a tour of the stadium of his favorite football team.

I might be repeating this one, but it’s just because I got my man that for Christmas, and he loved it. Most stadiums would offer a tour that includes the training ground, press rooms, changing rooms, a walk in the tunnel, and more. It’s a really affordable and fun way to make your boyfriend’s birthday special.

For The Bookworm

Here’s something every bookworm would love to get for their birthday: money for books!

But make it better!

Grab your man, go to his favorite bookshop, and tell him that he can get any and as many books as he wants, with no limits. Then go and get yourself coffee because you won’t leave anytime soon. All that’s needed from you is to nod when he asks, “No limits?”. Oh, and pay at the end.

For The Viking In Your Life

Your Viking-obsessed boyfriend expects you to honor his passion. What better way to do that than by getting him what every Viking warrior needs the most – a Viking axe?

Does he already have one? They are never enough; trust me on this one!

Personalized Military Storage Box

Getting Practical and Stylish – Docking Station

Those docking stations are so awesome and give the “I’m so organized” vibe a messy person like me envies and loves.

I am considering getting my man this docking station next time I need to think of a gift for him. It’s just so cool, manly, and neat. Bonus: I can engrave it with his name!

What do you think? How would you make your boyfriend feel special on his birthday?

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