How Do You Tell If He Is Your Soulmate?
If you are anything like me, you believe that the perfect match exists and call it a soulmate.
That special bond with someone that almost doesn’t take any effort to appear and makes the world a better place… that’s a soulmate.
But what are the signs that the man you are with is your soulmate?
How do you know you’ve met him, and how can you be sure the connection between the two of you is real?
Here are 7 surefire signs the man you have a relationship with is your soulmate.
How do I know?
I’ve met mine.
1. You Met Him At “The Right Time”
I met my soulmate right after a devastating breakup, and at that point, I was sure I wouldn’t date anyone anytime soon.
But as usual, life has different plans for us, and we cannot really mess with them.
As it turned out, I actually met my soulmate (now fiancee) at the right time, when I was willing to allow in my life someone who respects me and has the same life values as me.
I wasn’t willing to make any compromises with important things in life, and I still don’t have to.
Do you feel like you met your man at the right time?
Do you feel the emotional alignment and things just fall into places almost without any effort?
If you do, then you’ve probably met your soulmate.
2. Understanding That Doesn’t Make Sense
It almost doesn’t make sense how well you two get along.
When you meet your soulmate, you understand each other so well that you start to wonder if it’s normal.
I remember that at one point, I was asking myself if it was ok not to have huge disagreements. I felt like I was probably saying Yes to everything without thinking if I really wanted that thing… but I wasn’t.
If you had rough relationships in the past, it’s totally alright to question yourself at the beginning if “too good” isn’t a bad thing.
But once you meet your soulmate, you find out that life isn’t as complicated as it used to look like.
You realise that putting yourself in the other’s shoes is something you do by default.
He understands you, and you understand him, and that harmony between you two is almost magical and feels so… right.
At that point, you look around and see the dysfunctional relationships around you, and you are shocked how people don’t see that things could and should be way easier.
Love is simply that – Love, and you know it because you’ve met your soulmate.
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3. Perfection Doesn’t Exist, And That’s A Good Thing
My soulmate is a messy guy.
I’m a messy girl too; I won’t deny it. But when two messy people get together the chaos becomes huge. Almost unmanageable.
At the beginning of our relationship, I made myself a promise that I would never make a big deal out of his messiness (which I have to clean most of the time).
Instead, I focused on the important things – the way he treats me, the understanding, the way we respect each other and how I can be myself around him without being afraid I’ll be rejected at any point.
Here’s the deal.
No one’s perfect.
We all know it.
Yet, we all expect people around us to be perfect.
These expectations ruin every type of relationship and completely kill love.
Instead of focusing on the little things – the drops in the ocean of love, I decided to focus on the good and leave the insignificant little drops to hang somewhere there.
You realise that the fact he puts his socks in the laundry basket doesn’t guarantee you happiness and understanding.
In the same way, if he leaves the socks on the floor and I have to spear two seconds of my life to pick them up and place them in the basket, it doesn’t take my happiness away. It actually reminds me that I prefer it this way.
Back to you.
You aren’t perfect, and your partner isn’t perfect either. At the same time, you are in peace with this imperfection and find the beauty in it.
Can you relate to that?
Then you’ve met your soulmate.
4. You Aren’t Afraid Of Being Yourself Around Him
I think that’s the best part of the relationship.
With your soulmate, you can be You – whoever that is.
You could be loud and noisy; you can jump and laugh like a mad lady; in the next second, you could sit down and have a conversation about the meaning of life. You could be depressed and sad; you might need “me time” or a simple hug… whatever it is – you are 100% You.
And he loves it.
If he doesn’t, at least he isn’t annoyed or frustrated with it. Things are as they are, and you both respect the other’s quirkiness.
5. Your Soulmate Feels You
Here’s the thing about you two.
You don’t have to talk too much to know what you want and how you feel.
It’s like you feel each other’s moods, thoughts and needs. You turn towards him, and he already answers the question you didn’t ask.
It had happened to both of us so many times, and it still feels amazing.
On top of that, you feel like you’ve met before.
Almost nothing feels like a first time with him. Things click together so fast and so well like you’ve practised it million times before.
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6. You’ve Become A Better Person
Once you are with your soulmate, you become different.
Just a few days ago I was told that since my fiancee and I met, he has become calmer, caring person and he doesn’t look like he struggles to make me happy (as it was in a previous relationship).
And that makes so much sense.
Instead of focusing on solving the problem “how to make the other happy”, you focus on enjoying this happiness.
Suddenly, you have the time and the need to be a good person.
7. It Was Meant To Happen
I often ask myself if my loved one and I would’ve met if I had made different choices in life.
And the more time passes, the more I realise that things couldn’t be different. We were meant to meet and be together, and no matter how stupid that might sound to the people around me, I know that that’s the only way it could’ve been.
Probably different choices in life would’ve rushed or delayed the things but at some point out paths were going to cross and I have no doubts in that.
Do you feel like you were meant to meet and be together?
Do you “know” that you would’ve ended up together no matter what happens?
Well, that’s because you and your man are each others’ soulmates.
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