Maybe you’ve finally found the one for you
There’s something I think men do better than women…
They can quickly realise if the woman in front of them is good marriage material or it’s just a one-night-catch.
We, women, are too emotional, and it’s often way too easy to spin our heads with a few simple gestures…
And while I agree that many women are good in categorising a man after the relationship is over, I still believe that the gentlemen are pros in realising if a woman is worth the chase.
But even when you meet a woman who is all into you and you feel good with her, how do you know if she’s the one for you?
10 signs she’s the one
How do you know that she is the one to marry and how to find out if you will be happy with her in the long run?
I’ve summarised 10 unique signs you will spot only if she’s the one for you.
And let me tell you, she must tick all the boxes.
1. There is no need to talk
There’s really no need to talk sometimes. You could easily understand each other’s moods or feelings without mentioning them.
It’s not like you don’t like to talk. You could do it for hours, and you aren’t bored with her.
But when you need to stay in silence, maybe even retreat into your man’s cave, she understands you and simply leaves you alone.
When you are in the same room, there’s no awkward silence – there are just two people who love to be together even if they don’t talk.
2. She puts herself in your shoes – she empathises with you
Ok, guys, that’s important!
Being an empath isn’t a gift from nature, although some people can empathise a little bit more than others. Empathising is a skill we all must practise.
If your girl can put herself in your shoes and see your point of view in most of the situations, then she is probably the one for you.
3. You have the same family and personal values
I used to be madly in love with a guy who wanted us to create a family. That was until the point when he admitted that he wanted us to create a family in the future, but not now.
And you know, if someone tells you that they want something but not now, that means they aren’t sure they want that thing. I had almost hit my 30s, and as a woman, I didn’t have the time to wait for him to catch up with the values.
You shouldn’ wait, either.
If your partner has the same family and personal values as you do – you are on the same page, and she is the one for you and it’s time for you to treat her right.
4. You not only look but walk in the same direction
To make it clear, here’s what I mean: you both must want to have kids (or not have kids), you must both want to buy a house or not, you must both want to work your a**es off to get where you want to be.
The same stuff.
Working hard for it.
Here’s the thing.
A relationship is a partnership. You both have your 50% work to do in that partnership, and if you do it well then the relationship will be healthy and thrive for longer.
5. She respects you and you feel respect for her too
Respect is the one single ingredient that could make or break a relationship.
If your lady respects you and appreciates you, she’s gold, and she’s the one or you.
I’m a woman, and I know how important respect is for my fiancee. It’s important for me too. We are all humans, and that’s an essential part of every relationship in life.
But when you plan your future with a woman, you want her to have a deep respect for you.
Appreciation is just an add-on to respect.
If your girlfriend appreciates you and what you do for her, respects you and you feel the same for her – she is the one for you.
6. She isn’t afraid to say Sorry if she’s wrong although you are fine even if she doesn’t say it
Saying Sorry isn’t easy.
Yet, we all need to say it now and then.
Does your woman say Sorry when she mistreats you, or she’s mistaken? Does she act as she means it?
The ability to apologise indicates that she could ignore her ego and admit she did something wrong.
And while you certainly don’t need to hear her apology, it’s a good sign if you do.
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7. You don’t feel the need to defend yourself for your decisions – she doesn’t make you feel guilty for being yourself.
Simply put, you can be yourself.
There’s no acting, faking or whatever between the two of you.
You can be as weird, loud or melancholic as you feel and that’s fine with her. She respects it and doesn’t judge you for expressing yourself.
You never feel guilty for who you are. In fact, she encourages you to be yourself and that, my friend, mean she might be the right woman for you.
8. She is a little bit of a mental challenge for you – you are never bored
Not many people think about that when deciding if someone is the right one for them.
But we all need a few challenges in life. It makes our small worlds more interesting.
If a woman is too predictable and you don’t feel a little bit of challenge around her, you’ll get bored.
That doesn’t mean she must be hard to communicate, impossible to convince in doing something or difficult to be around.
It simply means you want to feel a little bit on edge, she keeps you alert in a good way, and she is smart and witty.
And you love it.
9. Your friends and family love her
That’s often underrated sign she is the one for you.
But your friends and family are the people who know you for years and wish you nothing else but the best. If they don’t feel comfortable communicating with your lady, sooner or later you will have to choose between spending quality time with her or quality time with them.
However, if your friends and family like her and communicate easily with her, she could be the one for you.
At the same time, she should like them too and do her best in keeping you connected to them.
10. You have that feeling
And then there’s that feeling.
It’s the feeling that she is the one you want to spend your days with. You could spend the weekend however you want with whomever you want… and yet, you end up spending it together.
It’s the feeling that she’s different and if you let her go, you will regret t your whole life.
That feeling when you see her in the morning and can’t wait to kiss her forehead, hug her and make her smile.
It’s the feeling you want to protect her, look after her and make the world a better place for both of you.
If you have that feeling – she is the one for you.
Never let her go.
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