Which one of you is falling out of love and thinks for break up?
Every relationship has a beautiful beginning, and we wish to stay like that forever. But the truth is that sometimes no matter the incredible beginning, the relationship is not going to last too long. So the break up could be close. How to see if yours is one of them? Check below and share with us if you agree with that.
Your partner’s attitude has changed.
He or she has too much stress at work. Doesn’t have enough time to relax, has too many things to do in life; friends are waiting. Stop! It doesn’t matter what kind of excuses you hear or make up in your mind. If your loved one wants to be with you, he will do it. As a part of a relationship, we have to be together. We should have fun, share plans, enjoy the other’s presence. If your partner avoids these activities, that is a sure sign you’re losing his or her attention.
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One of you is distanced.
It is different from the first one as even if you spend enough time together one of you still may look miles away.
Cold attitude hurts the other and makes him feel miserable. At the end of the day, he will question himself what’s wrong and whose fault it is. If you feel distanced or your partner is like that, that could be one of the signs that the relationship is in a crisis or even close to breaking up.
Your partner cancels appointments.
If you have a date or he promised to come with you somewhere but cancel it at the last minute, don’t worry. He may be busy with something more important. Listen to the reasons and don’t get mad. If it happened once everything is ok. But keep in mind that it may be a sign your loved one doesn’t take the things serious enough. Skipping regularly dates because of “any ridicules reason” tells that your partner prefers to spend his time away from you.
Too much arguing and criticism are not healthy in a relationship and points that someone is too nervous.
You are not perfect, neither he is. If you criticise the other too much or he does it with you, it is because you just don’t accept him the way he is. Arguing about every little thing show unhappiness and pressure. And makes the break up even closer. We either love each other the way we are, or we keep looking for someone else. Someone who doesn’t want to change us, and we don’t feel the need to change him as well.
He/she is never happy.
Having concerns and doubts in the relationship causes overthinking, makes you stressed and takes away the smile on your face. If you don’t feel emotionally satisfied or you see the other is always grumpy around you, it may be because the thought of you staying together doesn’t look as bright as it used to. Realising on time that we’re not happy anymore with someone saves us time and pain.
Too many apologies but not enough change – break up might be the only answer to that
I know I said no change. But when it comes to mistakes the other admitted, it comes a time when change is necessary and has to happen.
If you heard “I promise I will change” more than twice for the same things I would like to surprise you. It is not going to happen and somewhere deep inside you know it too. When we love someone, we don’t hurt him, and there is nothing in this world that can convince me in the opposite. When he knows that doing that thing will make you miserable and he does it, there is only one advice for you.
Just say goodbye and look for someone who will respect you enough not to hurt you.
You don’t talk about the future anymore.
The long talks for a holiday next summer are somewhere in the past? He/she tells you to plan something for yourself and to not coordinate it with him? Well, that is because he doesn’t believe he’ll be around you by that time.
The trust is gone.
Your partner doesn’t trust you, or you feel doubts about everything he says or do? A relationship without trust is not a relationship anymore. It’s a dying connection between the two of you. From all the things I said above that is the most important one. Questioning the other’s honesty is a sure sign one of you doesn’t have many reasons to stay around.